my best friend a guy obviously wants to take nude pics of me and its soo tempting!hes prooven that i can trust him on some things but should i trust him on keeping those pics all to himself? and does this mean he wants to be MORE than just friends?!
2006-08-19 20:00:40 · 26 answers · asked by babegurlluvscash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
obviously he wants to be more than friends...and no matter how much you think you can trust him, do not let him take nude pics of you....unless you want to find them a few months later floating around on the internet
2006-08-19 20:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Stepher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T TRUST HIM the pictures and negatives could end up any where including on the computer ask yourself this question what will happen if my daddy opened up a web page and there is his little girl in all her glory what would he do to me how would it hurt him. The choices you make now will effect the rest of your life even if he put them away now what about your future if you were to become famous a big time judge or married a man who could be president do you want to have to explain to the world why this jerk has naked pictures of you and why the evening news has them on the 5:00 news because you wouldn't pay his blackmail or why they are posted all over the Internet and porn magazine now because you didn't put out or get hurt even worse you trust him sleep with him and he still post it with the comments "FOR AN EASY CHEAP LAY" don't do it you will be able to keep your head up be able to look your family in the eyes. Lets not forget the real worse possibility this guy could kill you WATCH THE NEWS ONCE IN AWHILE !!!!!!!
2006-08-19 20:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Fawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this maybe a sexual fantasy you have yourself ..... that maybe it will lead to more with this friend?
The fact that you're asking if you should trust him indicates that you're not 100% sure yourself. If that's the case, just be prepared for anything if you do go ahead. I read an article in a magazine recently about a young lady who did just what your'e contemplating and the next thing she knew, those same pics were posted on the internet. It's your choice at the end of the day. Good luck.
2006-08-19 20:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, those things are so going to be on the internet...don't do it. Don't ever take any pictures that you don't want the world to see. People may have the best intentions, but what if another friend, or if he has a sibling, sees it/steals it? What if, God forbid, something happened to him, and while his parents are cleaning out his room they find nudie pics of you? Tell him nude photos can be found anywhere online and that the ones in Playboy are very tastefully done ;P (I don't know him, so maybe he does want to be more than friends, or maybe a friend made a bet he couldn't get a nekkid photo of you, loser buys Taco Bell? Whatever the case, you'll have to ask him.)
2006-08-19 20:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a typical guy to me, but there is nothing wrong with having some great photos of yourself naked. You wouldn't be asking if you didn't think so... This is obviously a dig cam and you and only you should have complete control of them and what you show in the pics. If you are comfortable with him seeing you naked... then go for it. As long as they are downloaded on YOUR computer or better yet disk, and he leaves with nothing. However I do have to say - pics of this nature could possibly lead to you sharing photos with someone who is not so trust worthy.
2006-08-19 20:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by Answer Me This 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be careful. How long have you known him? Usually it takes a good 6 months to get to know someone. How do you know that he's just being nice to you so that he can take photos of you naked?
The other thing you have to take into account is blackmail. What happens if your relationship with him sours? If he's vindictive or mean, he could post those pictures all over the Internet, threaten to embarrass you by sending it to your parents, or branding you as a slut or a whore with nude pictures of you to prove it.
How do you know you won't go through what Vanessa Williams did where she won the Miss America Pageant and then her nude photos from when she was posing for art got posted on Playboy? It turned out well for her career, but it was still an emotional blow.
What is he going to do with those pictures? Is he going to submit them to an adult site? What if you find out that your pictures of yourself nude are blasted all over Cyberspace? Are you okay with that?
It's really risky depending on your age and level of business experience.
If he genuinely likes you and wants something more, why does he need a camera to take pictures of you undressed? How is that supposed to cement the relationship or make it more special?
You put yourself in a very vulnerable position. If he likes you as a person and seems to exhibit gentlemanly traits, that's positive. However, I fail to see whee taking naked pictures of you will lead to anything but setting you up to be blackmailed, trying to get those pictures back, or being paranoid on whether nude pictures of you are going to be floating around online.
I know of one girl who was in college and got drunk at a party and they made an adult video showing her doing all kinds of sex acts and then blasted it all over the Internet. She was devastated. She didn't want that to happen, but there was nothing she could do about it.
Perhaps that's an overdramatic example, but you have to be careful nowadays. We do live in a more sexually liberal society. If you actually want your nude pictures distributed, then I guess you don't have anything to be concerned about.
2006-08-19 20:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by "IRonIC" by Alanis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two pieces of advice: 1. Never put anything in writing you would be embarassed or ashamed for someone else to see. 2. Never take a picture that you would be embarassed or ashamed for someone else to see. If he was your TRUE friend he would not ask you to do such a thing. If you do this and I advise against it how would you feel if one of your parents friends or your school friends sees your naked butt on the internet, it could be quite embarassing and difficult to explain.
2006-08-19 20:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by benrumson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants to be naked friends. He wants spank material. Why on earth would you let a friend have naked pics of you? Unless you want the world to see you naked, keep your clothes on.
2006-08-19 20:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have him look in a mirror naked
2016-01-11 01:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by harry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not recommend you taking these pictures. You never know where these pictures will wind up..especially if in the future you and him has a fall out. No, it does not mean he wants to be your boyfriend,,,,i only hope he does not plan to paste your pictures all over the internet so he can make money.
2006-08-19 20:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by sadealz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋