2006-08-19 19:16:29 · 21 answers · asked by abc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why would a guy waste time on a woman who they don't love? When they say they love you, you have to trust them. You must gain confidence in yourself and have faith in your partner. A man can go to a lot of places to get what he wants, but he chooses to be in love with you. You will only drive yourself crazy with these thoughts running through your mind.
2006-08-19 19:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you may have been burnt in the past with love, which is unfortunate for you, because that will make it harder to trust. If he says that he loves you after like a week, it's not real yet. I'd wait at least 3 full good months before taking it seriously. Depending on your age, or the age of your boyfriend, you may not fully understand the "feeling of love". It can really burn you, or be the best thing in the world. depending on the situation. He loves you if he calls you without you telling him, makes plans with you, instead of you always making the plans... says sweet things (but not everything out of his mouth should be "mushy" or "lovey dovey") respects you and your feelings, and should be willing to go out of his way to do things for you sometimes. If he doesn't ever make you feel like youre the number 1 priority in his life, than hes not the right guy (he shouldn't always make you the number 1 priority though, because that can easily turn into a possessive, uncomfortable relationship.)
2006-08-26 18:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so right, your feeling are right. You will know when a guy really loves you because he'll want to marry you. He would want to make you his so know one else can be with you. If that's not happening there is no love only the game. Remember you have something really valuable don't play your self down and the guys so high. You are higher. A guy will say and do almost anything to get what you have. Value yourself.
2006-08-25 20:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To is directed to the first answer, when man tells you he loves you, he wants to get in a girl's pants. Let's be honest. It's has nothing to do with what he says, but how he treats you. Actions are stronger, than words. Doe he treat you with respect? Listen to you when you need to talk? Show respect to his parents and yours? Share the decisions about what you'll be doing, where you'll be going?How you'll spend the time or money? Look for red flags: disrespect, put downs, hitting, etc. If he ever raises a hand to you are yells (way out of proportion to the incident) - run, don't walk. If hestarts making decisions FOR you, same thing. If there is some little problem while you're dating, it get a hundred times worse after marriage. So if you are interested in a certain fella, pay attention to how he pays attention to you.
2006-08-25 22:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by reme_1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey we are all boys and like to play, men dont really grow up (most anyway) guys are really little boys at heart and relationships at your age are usually experimental for both isdes any way. So just enjoy the ride
2006-08-26 20:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by Brian B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You most likely to young to even think about a guy loving you right now !!! Cause you don't even know how to tell if someone loves you or not! And who is their? More then one??
2006-08-26 18:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by sports_runner_racing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... usually by their actions, their words and how they treat you. You need to ask yourself some questions.
Does he treat you respectfully? Does he pressure you for sex? Does he pay the appropriate amount of attention to you? (note I said appropriate - not, does he hang off of you, or ignore you) Does he treat you nicely? Does he cherish you, and the time that he spends with you? Does he listen to your opinion, even if he doesn't agree with it? Does he ignore you or mock you in front of his friends? Are you his property, or his partner?
I'm sure you can think of lots of other good questions - does he value you, or not? What we love, we value.
2006-08-26 15:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by ceekryt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one way to tell, is actions speak louder then words. The way he treats you, cares for you ect. More then words to show you how he feels then he wouldn't have to say it because you'd already know!!!! That song is from a group called extreme check it out!!!!
2006-08-26 17:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, you'll know. it doesn't help to have those doubts in your head. it'll just keep you unconfident and uneasy. you don't need that. think of how you would like to be treated, and if a guy comes along and gives you the respect and communication you deserve, chances are, he does love you.
2006-08-26 20:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by CaramelKidsMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to show you he loves you.by being considerate of your feelings.kissing you and hugging you a lot.making sure you are alright.getting you things.always telling you he loves you and always wants you to be happy.does he do any of those things?if not.he will probably show you he loves you in his own time and in his own way.if he doesn't then you ll find someone else who really deserves your love.just be patient
2006-08-26 15:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋