Girls Only please a personal question?

Question

My boobs are big im 12 4'11 and a 34C i get compliments on them from guys all the time and i have had a few boyfriends who only liked my because they liked my boobs but really i feel insecure about them Any advice on
a. how to tell ig a guy just likes your boobs
b. how to make them look smaller

Answer 1

They're not getting any smaller, hopefully you will get taller and broader shouldered though, that should help. 34C would be just right if you end up 5'6" or taller, just give it time.

There's no way to tell if a guy *just* likes your boobs. Most guys do like boobs, but if he likes to spend time with you, treats you with respect and hangs out with you and doesn't pressure you to do things you don't want to do, then he probably likes the rest of you as well.

I don't know about how to make them look smaller other than wear a tight binding bra and loose t-shirts.

Answer 2

guys are stupid. Plain and simple. Unfortunately this is something that you are going to have to deal with for the rest of your life. There will be times that a guy only dates you because of your breasts. There is nothing that I or anyone else can suggest that is going to change this. The best thing for you to do is be picky about boyfriends. Also please be careful. It is not fair but there is a possibility that you will be known as a sl*t because the size of your breasts. It will either be because of other girls that are jealous of you will start rumors or just boys being stupid again. So don't give them anything to talk about. As far as trying to make them look smaller. Well I don't know of anything that will do that but when you shop for bras make sure that they do not make them look any bigger. The best thing for you to do if you can afford it is to go to Victoria's secret and be fitted for a bra. They can help you find the perfect bra for your figure and body type. By having a bra that fits right not only will it make things more comfortable for you but it will keep your breasts in the right place and that wil make things alot better for you. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 3

Well, for question A...

How can you tell? If all the guy wants to do is make-out or whatever with you then you shouldn't date him and if you think he's with just for your boobs well you shouldn't date him. there's nothing really to say to that other than to really know the guy you're going out with. and you're 12 aren't you a little too young to date or even have boyfriends?

and for question B

Being 12 with big boobs must be pretty annoying if you ask me but if you want to make them look smaller I would say run it off. boobs are basically fattie tissues...work it off. or maybe try some sport bras. that could help some.

Answer 4

This is not to hard of a Question. From a guy's point of view, yes your very attractive but in the physical way. What you need to do is to not were clothes that show cleavage or brings attention to your chest. dont all ways look for the muscular hansom popular guys cuz they might just be in to you for the body and not your personality. try to find some one you can get along with as great friends and then maybe later as a boyfriend. besides your to young to be going through this any ways. be care full and good luck.

Answer 5

Slow down on eating all the fast food and red meat. Your body is still developing and those will only make your breasts bigger. Try exercising more (I know, it sucks) and they will actually get a bit smaller. Clothes are one way to do it, as is the 'minimizer' bra (my fiancee is 36D and wears a minimizer).

To tell if a guy likes your boobs only . . . you're 12. It's what separates you from every other girl. I hate to say it, but if a random guy comes up to you, he might think you're older because of your chest size. If you catch him staring at your breasts all the time, he's probably very interested in them.

Answer 6

The only way I know to make them look smaller is to wear a sports bra because it kind of squishes them. At 12 you shouldn't have a boyfriend because you can be guaranteed he is only interested in the boobs. Enjoy being a girl. Don't try to be a woman. That comes quick enough.

Answer 7

I'm not sure if you dont wear black or if your into preppy colors but to make your boobs look smaller you could

A) wear black
B) loose weight (im not saying your fat)

you could tell if a guy is liking you for your boobs by

A) when he talks to you hes looking at your boobs and not your eyes
B) he always compliments your boobs
C) he will be randomly starring at your boobs
D) he will sneak touches at them

Answer 8

Unfortunately the first thing that guys are gonna notice are your breasts because your petite, you shouldn't feel insecure about them because a lot of people pay big $$$ just to get what you have....listen to your gut re: the guys, because you can feel whether he's interested in you for you or because of your breast. You can't make the msmaller but you can wear a good support bra that doesn't make your breast "giggle" that much, and to distract away from your breast do not wear tight fitting tops or low cut tops, then your just asking for attention. I'm not saying to wear a "sack" but wear clothes or accessories that highlight our other features. ps. don't bind your breasts because it could cause deformation.

Answer 9

Mine are a bigger and I get looks of delight from some guys. You can tell if they just like you for them because the guy doesn't look at your eyes when he talks to you, he looks at your breasts. It's annoying alot of the time, but you just have to set them straight and say "stop staring at my boobs!" That's what I do.

Answer 10

At your age I was a 40D, but when a guy looks at you and he never make eye contact hes looking at to boobs. Just make sure you make him look you into the eye. Plus don't make them smaller, they are a part of your nothing to be a shamed of! Trust me!