Ive been going out with my great boyfriend for three months now. He doesnt go to the same school as me, so i dont see him much. Now that school has started, theres this guy that has been looking at me. Not much, but when he does- he stares. I met him in summer school and have only talked to him once. I think he likes me and i think i may be crushing on him!! Is this wrong?! I mean- I have a boyfriend!! What can i do to stop feeling like this?! I really dont wanna break up with my boyfrien! But i dont want to be crushing on someone else!!
2006-08-19 18:50:03 · 24 answers · asked by Lady Luck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I also had a dream of him last night but i dont remember it much! oops.
2006-08-19 19:05:59 · update #1
just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you're dead. everyone notices other attractive people. just think before you do anything with this other guy. don't do anything you wouldn't want your boyfriend to do with another girl.
2006-08-19 18:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by swtstuf2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have your whole life in front of you. There is plenty of time to think about settling down. If you dont go out with different guys, how will you ever know if the man you choose is right for you. I dont mean you have to have sex with these men, but you do need to open up your mind a bit....Its fine to date different boys at your age because life is full of fun and excitement and I think you are too young to be settling down with one boyfriend anyway....Go out, experience everything that life has to offer you.
2006-08-27 23:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ! If you care about your b/f you wouldn't be liking another guy behind his back or thinking about another guy!!! You might just like the attention he is giving you, so you may need more attention from your b/f !! start seeing more of him( your b/f) and get his attention and forget about the other guy if you don't want him!!! You know how you feel?? don't you??? You know its wrong that's why you ask!! you can;t have both!! so you better do something and don't lead the other guy on by flirting back or anything, he will get the picture!!!
2006-08-27 01:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by sports_runner_racing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have ordered doesn't mean that you can't still look at the menu. You may just like the attention that you are getting from him or you may like a quality about him that you boyfriend doesn't have. Try seeing more of your boyfriend and if it really bothers you then stay as far away from the other guy. or you can try being strictly friends with the other guy just in case it doesn't work out with your boyfriend.
2006-08-27 00:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries_r_cream 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hun, don't worry. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone other than your bf, its human nature, and very normal. It's whether or not you act on it that's important. Don't break up with your bf just because you have a crush on another person. Crushes rarely are long term anyway, and usually fade away sooner or later. If you want to preserve your relationship with your bf, just try and distance yourself from your crush.
2006-08-20 02:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon83 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have stated to us that you really don't want to break up w/your boyfriend, so don't let the flesh block what you've told us you want to do. You're going to find attractive people in school (it kinda comes with the package), but be mindful of the seeds you plant because the harvest is always bigger (and that, you will always reap). If you want to test the waters, be confident about it and let your boyfriend go in a respectable way. By any means, please try not to play him because I'm sure you'll value his friendship if he respects your decision. ; )
2006-08-27 19:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lyttle_Starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably too young for this advice,but what the hell. NEARLY EVERYBODY cheats its normal, and yep it hurts when the other patner finds out and Im not suggesting its good or right, just normal. (I do know some people who probably havent cheated but they are not 70 yet so there is still time) Life is an interesting ride, enjoy the fun bits and try to smile at the rough bits.
2006-08-27 02:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by Brian B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your feeling evolve from crushing at a distance, your current boyfriend should be the first person to know about it. Don't act on your feelings, and break your boyfriends heart after you've already cheated on him. It's not cheating to look, it's only cheating when you act on your feelings. P.S. it's okay to look.... and it's nice to be looked at. just be careful of what you're doing, and who you may be hurting along the way. good luck.
2006-08-27 01:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by soft rockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you haven't done anything wrong. But if you really like this guy and you find out that he really likes you break up w / ur bf and go for the new guy. But be truthful w/ your bf if you make that choice. There is a possibility that ur bf is into someone else.
2006-08-26 19:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by Kat33 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to focus on your current relationship,there must be something wrong if you have a wandering eye!figure out what the problem is and whether or not it can be fixed if not set your boyfriend free and move on!!GOOD LUCK!!
2006-08-28 00:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by Alli G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be thinking about other guys while u have a bf but just dont do anything with the other guy cuz it will be considered cheating.
2006-08-20 01:55:48 · answer #11 · answered by Mandy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋