why do two people going togeather,they say i love you and when they get married they could tear each others head off?i figure if 2 people sit down and talk things out then stuff could be solved without blaming each other. what are your opinions about this.thank you.
2006-08-19 18:23:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because they don't really love each other. They been infatuated with each other for so long and that's bad. A marriage isn't suppose to begin with anger and frustration. Infatuation is dangerous and its the reason why there are so many divorces today.
2006-08-19 18:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wen Ur married there is a lot more pressure on u to do things rite. u cant just say oops hes not rite and leave without going through all the legal terms. also wen u r married u spend a lot more time with each other and u cant just get up 1 day and say honey I'm Gunna go to my moms house for a few days cuz i don't like it here. or something like that. wen Ur married also it shows a sign of maturity kind of because u r now the adults spending the rest of Ur life with this 1 person by Ur side. and for most of married couples u will share so many great things of life together such as children,memories,pets,and vacations etc ..... wen u r just a couple dating it doesn't challenge the couple to c if they r soul mates. wen u r married it is a challenge to prove Ur love for each other.
2006-08-20 01:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by belle k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-after marriage wife and husband take each other for granted
2 - problem of ego
3-blame game
these three together are there in post marrital life.yes I do agree with your opinion,as an old saying all disputes between wife and husband must be settled in their bedroom and not at open place.
I am too facing this problem in life,but my wife is not ready to talk,so for that both wife and husband have to take one step back in order to go up in relationship
2006-08-20 03:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by yours h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very logical. Women do not know the meaning of logic, therefore you are screwed, blued and tattooed.
2006-08-20 01:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes nothin' can be a real cool hand.
2006-08-20 01:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ari A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because one of them is a WOMAN.
2006-08-20 01:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they stop trying to "please" each other and when they live together their true selves come out.
2006-08-20 02:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are one hundred percent rite
2006-08-20 01:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋