This is more just a spot to write your thought no right or wrong answers.
I love them because we are so much alike. normally ends in disaster.
I love them because were complete oposites. Tend to last alittle longer.
We all have loved at one point or another and probally hated as well. Now most of us has disliked someone once they have given you a reason too. but what about those you never met? Ever hated someone just because they sneeze funny? probaly not because they were just born to sneeze like that. What if they like to eat a diferant food than you? Do you hate them? Maybe if they were from another culture?Yeah then "some" of you would really hate them. We as humans were always bred to hate the unknown. We don't understand. It's easyer to hate than take the time to figure them out. You know for all of you rasist people out their you hate intire nations because you dont know. It's ok because no matter how much you hate someone, someone else hates you too.Why? is it ignorance
2006-08-19 18:05:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Please, tell me your hates you being hated and yes lets not forget Love!
2006-08-19 18:25:41 · update #1
Love - I love people - women in particular - most of all. My little girl died about 12 years ago - as horrible of a tragedy as that was, it has taught me to appreciate life. If you are a living, breathing human being, I thank God for your existence. In my view of the world, we were created by a loving God. So my love for my fellow man (and woman) is divine, I hope.
The female gender is God's artistic achievement. Sort of like he created man and said "I thnk I can do better than that!" Your heart, your ability to love your children with your dying breath, your fantastic form ... the world would be a terrible place to live without all of you lovely ladies. Every woman (ALL OF YOU) has a particular beauty. You make life a wonderful mystery, and I love you all for it.
I love my ex. We were married for 18 years, have wonderful children and shared a lot of good times. I probably should not have married her because we were terrific friends at the time. We tried very hard to make a relationship work for a lifetime and it just didn't. I can't hate her for leaving me or anything else. I've lost a friend but I gained a wonderful life.
Love comes in many forms. We have just one word (the Greeks had several) and it is supposed to cover everything from loving chocolate to loving my child. Sometimes, the person you love is going to be with you for a long time as your lover. Sometimes your lover will be with you only for a season or a reason. Not every love is meant for a lifetime. The lifetime love takes a lot of work and it is well worth it. Just don't be angry with people who can't love you for a lifetime or for more than a season. Find the good in a person and let go of the disappointment.
Hate - I have to admit I've hated in the past. I don't know if any of that is left. When I've hated a person, or things about a person, it was really all about me. There is nothing you can do to make me hate you unless I decide that I will hate you for it. Your annoying habits are really my problem, not yours. Contempt is the root of that. And contempt comes from insecurity or a feeling of helplessness. As I've learned to accept the things I cannot control, and to focus on the things I can control, I haven't had so much time to hate others.
Hate me? Part of maturity is to accept the fact that not everyone you meet will like you. If someone hates you, it is really all about them, not you. The last person who told me she truly hated me was a candidate for commitment to a psychiatric institution. Don't try so hard to make people like you. If they don't, and you are fair in the way you treat others, you won't be able to make them like you.
I love your question.
2006-08-20 04:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You haven't really asked a question but I don't believe it is hate but maybe ignorance on not knowing how the mind functions. It is called Social Identity Theory. When we are born we all have the need to categorize new information (including new people). This leads to bias' based on who we are and how we identify ourselves within a society. You mentally process new people as either belonging to your "group" or not belonging to your "group." You assign favorable attitudes toward YOUR group and negative attitudes towards OTHERS. From here you seek out information to support your rationale and are more likely to throw away information contrary to your initial assessment. You just have to "unlearn" the attitude and assessment you initially attributed to a group that is different from your own.
2006-08-20 02:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question. of course its ignorance. ive found that some of the people that ive known that i didnt like turned into good friends, because i judged too soon. why didnt i like them, who i didnt know? it was something small that irritated me. i didnt hate them tho. thats a strong word. ive gotten to the point in my life that i hate no one. strong dislike, maybe, but no hate. i think if everyone that feels hatred would just lay back, and smoke a fat one, the hatred would turn into laughter and there would be no problem. oh yeah, we dont hate the unknown, just fear them.
2006-08-20 01:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by chris l 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
born that way I guess
2006-08-20 01:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hate is Love that has lost its way..."
thats all i can say....
2006-08-20 17:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by SxyDeViL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋