im pregnant and 13?

Question

im so scared. im keeping the baby but my boyfriend dumped me and wont even talk to me. im 8 weeks preg. i dont know what to do. and i need help to stop smokin weed for while im pregnant.

my parents wont even talk to me. their so pissed

and dont say stupid stuff like your too young. no sh!t you think i dont know already

Answer 1

WOW UR SO YOUNG YOU ARE GONNA NEED A LOT OF HELP JUST KNOW THIS
your life as you know it is over no more going out
forget ever having friends and being a teenager you will NEVER EVER have a single minute to yourself
any and all things that you do will revolve around the baby you will be soooooo broke and you will never sleep again and that's not even the half of ur problems I am not trying to be all preachy but its true you will also love your baby so much that its terrifying if you want to know more e-mail me @[e-mail]
sorry girl!!

Answer 2

Lol... what a typical story. This actually makes me laugh... sorry. Is this a joke?

1) What the hell are you doing going round sleeping with guys for? You're in... what... seventh? Eighth grade?? Not even in high school and already pregnant....

2) Two young idiots + sex + no use of condom or other birth control + girl ovulating = STI or pregnancy. Duhhh use a condom next time you do it and then you wouldn't be in this mess!

3) Stop smoking weed. There is no treatment for stoners, sorry. Only for people who smoke nicotine. Even if you weren't pregnant, I would still advise you to stop smoking it.... god, that one's a total no-brainer. Pretty easy to figure it out, that smoking ANYthing, marijuana or otherwise, will harm both you and your unborn baby.

4) Forget your f~ckwit of a boyfriend... he obviously isn't going to be a man and step up to the plate, so just get over him. How old was he anyway? It's just so so so typical; some guy plays up to you just so he can get in your pants.... well I hope it was worth it now you're preggers.

5) You say your scared... you shouldn't be, if you got yourself into this crap you're gonna have to be responsible. TELL YOUR PARENTS NOW, otherwise it'll be too late and next thing you know, you'll be in labour at school... or they'll find out (pregnant bellies aren't that easy to hide unless you're 5'0 and weigh 300 pounds)

6) If your parents aren't supportive, they may take you to get an abortion... if so, this will be hard but it could be for the better, because you alone are not old enough to take care of a baby... you just aren't physically, emotionally, or mentally ready. Sorry, but it will be a hard journey you've got ahead of you, honey.

Whatever you do, make sure you follow these steps, and good luck with the baby.

Love electricarizona

P.S Also, when choosing a baby name, don't choose a "stripper" name - eg: Amber, Candy etc.... or a "hip hop" name: Shayanah, Daquon, Imerya.... you get the picture. Pick a name with class.

Answer 3

Whoa! I had my now, 13 year old at 17 and I thought that was a tough road. You have many choices, but the choice you make should be in consideration of your infant first, you second. You have to stop smoking weed now unless you are going to abort. I am not a proponent of abortion, but it would be worse to bring an unhealthy infant into this world due to immaturity or selfishness. Second, if you do not have any plan, family support, I am an advocate of considering adoption. You have access online, so I encourage you to look up your options, sometimes love is giving your baby to someone who can provide. Finally, it is YOUR CHOICE to keep your baby but this is not a possesion or choice you can easily change your mind about later.

I would say also, even if your boyfriend didn't leave already, he most likely would. When a child is born out of marriage, the father is all too often a failure of any kind of man. If you chose to go forward as a young mom, you are on your own. I hope you have a supporting family and God bless you. Wish you and the unborn one the best.

Answer 4

All I can say is wow, you have gotten yourself in deep, and right now you need your parents more than anything. Sit them down and tell them what is going on, and also that you have a drug addiction that you need help with. They can help you make a good decision and help you find a treatment program. Also, I would go the doctor ASAP, especially since you're smoking weed because it is VERY bad for the baby. As for the guy, that sounds so typical and he's an @$$, he needs to be a man and stand up for what he's done. If you keep the baby he will still have to pay child support, and this can be enforced through the law. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

If you really want to keep your baby you should have enough will power to stop. If your parents are already helping you then dont worry about your boyfriend {its his loss} ....Dont listen to people saying get an abortion. I know how it feels to get one and it is horrible. If I could take it back I would {I was 13 at the time}. There are plenty of programs to help young mothers. I am on my own and have a 1 year old daughter now. I had my abortion 5 years ago and I think about it every day when I look into my daughters eyes. It wasnt worth it.

Answer 6

First, forget about your boyfriend - he, is no good for getting you pregnant, i'm not sure of the state you live in, but, this is considered rape in some states. Stop using anything like drugs, or else you will be in serious trouble. First, tell a family member you can trust!!! If not, call American Pregnancy Association - 1-800-672-2296, contact your local pediatrician and ask for help. If, you cannot do any of this go to your school guidance counselor - ask, for immediate assistance with help for your pregnancy and report the person who made you pregnant. Don't worry about getting him in trouble, he is no good for you!

Answer 7

At this age you have not reached your potentials so raising the child would be difficult for both you and baby.
Go to the doctor and ask for options, or even your school councilor. I hope you still do go to school. Tell them who your boyfriend was he should be responsible for this as much as you are. He is part of the problem and why you are in this.
And kids wonder why they should not have sex. You should have been taught about not only getting pregnant but also the risks of getting STD.

Answer 8

Well first off know your life is not over. It is just on hold. as for your boyfreind he needs to take finatual responcably for the child. if nto help in raising the wonderful little one. As for weed just stop. just do not buy any more. OHh by the way when you give birth the drug test the baby for any and all narcotics. And if they find any in you they will take your most valuble thing away form you. YOUr CHILD.... And you need to get your deploma or Equilant. and think of collage to. so that you can help support your self as well as the child. and i would start to think before acting on anything for now on. YOu have a child to care for.

Answer 9

properly, there is not any way round it, you're scared, and that i dont mean to sound harsh, yet try to be. are you absolutly one hundred% positive you're pregnant? in the journey that your no longer, then you might want to upload the files about why you imagine you're, and ect. your mum and dad would ought to carry close, you would possibly want to need to bypass the physician, well being branch, so when you're one hundred% p.c. positive you're pregnant, i mean took the try and comprehend for positive, then tell them. when you're literally not positive, and also you're taking a try that announces your no longer, then to any extent further have secure sex!!!!!! you're too youthful to be doing that altogether, and also you ought to really imagine about that. it doesnt remember what your persons are doing, or if some boy says its all ok. its a remember of self note of. your basically a baby once, and at the same time as each from time to time it would want to suck, delight in it at the same time as you may, and leave the grown up stuff for later, once you higher helpful comprehend and take care of it!

Answer 10

Look , baby girl I've been there and did what you are doing. You can do it if you put your heart in too it because I've done it, your young and it's a BIG change but it's very hard to . you have to stop doing a lot of things to your self and that baby my heart goes out to you . you can get help from your school or a community center if your mom or dad doesn't want to help you