I have girl friends and boy friends and like them all. I have not been in bed with them. But, I wonder if I will be gay when I'm older and out of school.
2006-08-19 17:11:29 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't choose to be gay. If you don't have sexual urges for the same sex already, it is doubtful you will have them when you get older.
It isn't unusual to develop crushes on the same sex without becoming gay. It's natural to be curious.
2006-08-19 17:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite normal to hev friends from both sexes. Don't worry.
If you were going to be gay, you would already know.
Sexual desire is not the most important thing in life. Don't be led astray by TV and newspapers. Very few people are gay, only a tiny percentage of the population.
Just carry on with your school friends, and don't worry about it
2006-08-27 00:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving your friends doesn't neccacerily mean you'll be gay. Girls who have friends that are girls call their friends girlfriends. How ever odd it may sound now, but it doesn't mean that your dating them, the same will go for boys who are friends. It doesn't mean that you'd be gay if you haven't been in bed with them. You love your friends as though they were your own flesh and blood. However, it is your choice really on who your attracted to.
2006-08-19 17:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you are attracted to, I think you should concentrate on growing up first, not trying to be mean, but maybe when you are older you will know. Does it really matter if you are gay, or straight? As long as you are a good person.
2006-08-25 01:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you like both sexes does not mean your bisexual. Are you having sexual thoughts towards both sexes? Even before I got out of high school I knew I was gay. It's just one of those things you know if you are gay or str8. Don't push it and enjoy the ride no matter who he or she is.
2006-08-27 07:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea of course u are this is the easiest question ever u will def. be gay duhhhhh..... i am gay because i liked girls and boys in school and now that im out of school omg I'm gayer than gay
thanks for the points
lots of gay love.......beacuse i am gay
2006-08-27 15:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Terrie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should pretty much know if you are gay or not. I don't agree that you 'choose' to be gay. I can't choose to be attracted to women sexually/physically. I'm not interested in women just as homosexual men are not interested in women.
So which is it? Are you more attracted to girls, guys or both. Homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual. There is no wrong answer.
2006-08-25 08:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by lilsis853 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does mean you will be gay>Female to female attraction is perfectly normal in straight women.BUT even if you do decide that you are gay there is absolutely nothing wrong with that!Good luck!!
2006-08-27 16:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Alli G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why you even ask this question.
Are you attracted to both of them more than friends would be?
You may just be a normal kid growing up and feeling all of those feelings of the same.
2006-08-19 17:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are you attracted too women or men? This is the only way you will know if your going to be gay in the future...
2006-08-19 17:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋