help me out im always looking for a great girl but i seem to be if they dont have any money or anything going for them if its wrong not to like them!
2006-08-19 17:07:59 · 4 answers · asked by Italian stallion 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well, if they don't have anything going for them or any self esteem, I can't see how you'd be attracted. But... it's totally
different regarding money. You can fall in love with a rich girl
or a poor girl. If money is a major consideration here then I'd
say that you are shallow & a gold digger.
I have dated very rich men, and the man that I fell absolutely
head over heels in love with hardly has a dime. I'd prefer to
stay home and watch a video with him than go out to a very
expensive dinner with someone whom I didn't have the chemistry. $$ should have nothing to do with your love for a
woman. Unless your true love is $$. In that case, shove off.
You wouldn't want a woman who was only interested in your money, would you?
If you are dating someone who is rich, ask yourself if you would still date her- or get along- if she had no $$. If the answer is no...
then I'd question your relationship. And would she date you if you
lost everything. Sometimes that happens. Fortunes are won and lost. Your significant other should stay with you in good times
and bad.
I know... I'm sounding Pollyannish- But, that is the conclusion that I have come up with based on my life's experience. I hope that you are able to find true love not based on $$- because in the long run, you can't take it with you- the only thing you really take with you is love.
Sometimes big money can be more trouble than it's worth.
2006-08-19 17:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by Linda S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't choose them because they have money. If you like girls because they have something going for them, that's not the same thing.
2006-08-19 17:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mama R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well love is patient and love is kind and what you described is not kind at all so I say it is not love but lust. So good luck with that. You are going to have to figure it out for your self.
2006-08-19 17:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i won't date any body that doesn't have any money or something going for them , it's a waste of my time and yours get some one at least in the same status as you or better.
2006-08-19 17:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by andrienne w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋