But now...he's always out drinking and when I talked about him giving up this habit he turns mad. Now I am beginning to doubt in his love. Does he still love me?????
2006-08-19 17:04:34 · 7 answers · asked by Shybe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its definitely serious!
firstly,did he drink earlier too?or is it that lately he has started drinking?if its lately that he has started drinking...you need to look out for the reasons that are really troubling him...it could be some real worries about anything in his family...career...or just any money matter...failing to solve which he is burning himself in alcohol.
if you love him true,try to help him out....when he is calm and not drinking...ask him in a reassuring loving way to tell you what is bothering him.....
but if there isn't any such reasons...and he is plain drinking and treating you bad...you are definitely right in doubting his love for you!
be sure,before deciding....
good luck!
2006-08-19 17:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like it if "he's always out drinking" and "turns mad" when you bring it up for discussion...does it sound like love to you?? If he loves you he will want to work along with you to make the relationship better and be willing to deal with the issue of his drinking...and always being out drinking when he has a girlfriend. I wouldn't invest too much more time or energy with him. I would move on.
2006-08-19 17:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he "love" you? Sounds like he has a weird way of showing it. If I were you I would end the relationship now and move on. You don't want to continue a long term relationship with someone who has a drinking problem. It's just not worth it.
2006-08-19 17:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sass B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may love you, but sounds like he has a drinking problem... If alcohol gets in a way of a relationship - it's a red flag. If he doesn't get help, find a different boyfriend.
2006-08-19 17:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's comfortable with you. He can be himself but some people just need their space too (personal time) , it's healthy for the relationship.
Go on a cruise togeather or a fun get away, you need a breather but don't think he dosent love you, I'm sure he does.
If he dosen't love you then you best look into other reasons why that may be.
2006-08-19 17:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is always out drinking then I guess it is over between the two of you.
2006-08-19 17:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He never did.
2006-08-19 17:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋