I have a guy friend that acts like a boyfriend but says he just an intamite friend but we act like we're boyfriend/girlfriend and what can I do?! I like him so much and he's so sweet but after I asked if sometime we could exchange digits..he kinda stoped talking to me so much and he acts wierd...Before you answer, might I add that he's a close guy friend on the computer and I know some people are going to say it's too dangerous and I know. I am VERY VVEERRYY careful. And don't tell me I'm to young or something. I'm seriouse!!! HELP! [*sry for typos. I had to hurry and type]
2006-08-19 16:54:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forget about him, find someone you can actually see.
2006-08-19 16:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u ask the question if you don't really want it answered? You obviously are gonna do whatever you want and not listen to anyone's advice cuz u've already decided that u don't think it's dangerous enough to not see him and you don't think ur too young. Even though I know you don't wanna hear it here are the facts:
1.) IT IS VERY, VERY DANGEROUS!!!!!!!!
I really don't think you understand what you might be getting
yourself into here. I always thought i was being careful but i realized i was putting myself in a lot of danger and I just got really lucky that I didn't end up in a car with a psycho in the middle of nowhere. If he's acting weird then he probably is and just because he says certain things doesn't mean that what he's saying is true. He could be some older guy looking for someone to rape and kill. Your just better off being safe than sorry or dead.
2.) About the age thing....I don't know how old you are but if you think ppl on here will think ur too young then you probably are. Usually the guys on the net are looking for the young innocent girls out there who are gullible, now I don't mean to offend you but that's probably what you are...at least i know that's what i was. I thought I was always right and that all those bad things that happen to other ppl could never happen to me but they can and they will if you're not careful.
OK.....I'm done. Even though you probably didn't read any of this. I guess you'll just have to find out the hard way then, but I hope you don't.
2006-08-20 02:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you don't really want advice. You just want us to tell you what you want to hear. Sorry kid. Life doesn't work that way. Now this guy that you are talking to may not even be who you think he is. He can be a 30 or 40 year old perverted sex predator. Maybe the reason he doesn't want to give you his number is because his wife might answer the phone. Fact of the matter is that you are too young and still have a lot to learn about life and people. The best thing for you to do is to stick with dating boys in your neighborhood and stop trying to pick up guys over the internet. Peace and God bless.
2006-08-20 00:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him! NOW! What if he looks like a monster? (although it may not be his fault), or he smells bad cause he doesnt clean himself or his house, and has OCD, herpes, aids, lied about his age, is married, has three girlfriends...etc. Gee, you are stupid for trying to start a relationship online. There are too may unknowns. find someone who has ties to the community or someone that you know has a family in the town where you live. If you keep thinking about this jerk you're gonna fall for him even more...He's an idiot! forget him now or be a fool later
2006-08-20 00:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he act like he dont like u then leave him alone cuz in most cases the female keeps pushing til she get the male then when she get the male he mistreat her and cheat and all that other stuff then the female is on yahoo answer with this "help my bf is cheating, what should i do" type stuff when all that could have been avoided if she had left him alone when he said he wasn't interested
2006-08-20 00:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok have you ever thought to stop and be in his shoes? Maybe you are being super safe but what if he thinks you are the crazy one? Oh and one more thing your never to young for love but dont confuse love with wishful thinking. you may think you love a guy but guys aren't to quick to want to be tied down. Dont push to hard! hope i cold help.
2006-08-20 00:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well the best thing i can tell u is just keep talking to him and see how things play out
2006-08-20 00:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by cortney_hudlin92 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why was your Mommy going to catch you up so late asking stupid childish questions on the Internet,,, you bad girl you... go to bed
2006-08-20 00:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I might be one of them guy's
2006-08-20 00:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by max p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another man, you should not stress over this guy.. Move on....
2006-08-20 00:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋