I had five friends and we were all good friends,but all envied us
till last april and now two of them has choosen a wrong path and they are not being as they were to us.
Now we are four .should i advise them or forget them.
2006-08-19 16:53:45 · 15 answers · asked by Priya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that depends,ask yourself how far they have gone from you.will they change if you advise them?i see this happening from april,so maybe they are more focused on their new acquired trndz,and it would be difficult to bring them back because lot of time has gone inot it,you shold have tried advising them earlier, i know it is difficult to forget, but i recommend so,however,if you want him/her back, it would sure take a lot of trying......
2006-08-19 17:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by thefussiest1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, to start with, 2 from 5 is 3 not 4.
Other than that, all you can do is tell them how you feel, it will be up to them to decide what to do, if they want to change or not. You can't force anyone to make that decision. If they don't want to change then if you are truely their friend then you will continue to try to talk with them but don't get discouraged if they don't change.
If you aren't that good a friend then talk to them once and if they won't listen or change then move on, you don't need the added stress in your life.
2006-08-20 00:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say forget them. If you advise them about anything you may start an unwanted fight. Maybe they will come around and see themselves what they are doing wrong.
2006-08-20 00:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Sondrahhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. it's hard being friends with others who don't have anything in common with you. they may come back around with the adventure behind them and a new commitment. so give them a vacation and love them anyway. Make new friends to fill in their empty spot.
2006-08-19 23:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget them
2006-08-20 00:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend is always a friend.
If you already loose a friend . . . would you still want to loose another?
or if not . . . would you want to know how hard to loose friends?
It's hard because they are the ones who you already gave your trust . . . it's better to advice them and lead them to the right path . . . for it will be the best thing to do! Goodluck!
God bless!
2006-08-20 23:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by ~§~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As afriend you first warn them .if they are not listening to you then its upo them.But never think of leaving them just because they turned bad. They may be needing you at the time they repent for their faults.
2006-08-20 01:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by kumars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just forget about them the four of u keep doing ur own thing
2006-08-20 00:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by 2 THICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave them along cause lots of time you will end up losing friendship if you try to tell them right.
2006-08-20 00:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey... i wont suggest u to forget ur frnd
u've been gud frnds and thus u shld try to think of some way to sort out ur prob
if u try to forget him/her or tey to ignore then belive me u wont be able to lead a happy life as it wld torture u and u will be tensed regarding it
try to talk to ur frnd and make him realize what's gud for him and wht's bad
All The Best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-20 00:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Adi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋