help wat do i do a gay guy keeps msg me and keeps askin me out but i'm not gay i like girls not guys he won't stop and the worst things is he was my best friends and he just came out of the closet like 2 days ago............wat do i do help ????????
2006-08-19 15:58:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him to **** off and **** him if he was ur friend he would understand
2006-08-19 16:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-26 19:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel. tell him that you're only interested in girls. it shouldnt matter that he's gay. at the end of the day, the more you tell him you're not interested and keep telling him, the mor he'd back off. once he knows you dont like him that way, he would back off. still be friends with him though. theres nothing worse than not being a friend to a gay guy. i know you'd feel awkward around him, but u have to learn to accept it, and so does he. when i was in school, although im a girl, i had two gay guys in my grade alone. at first, my best friend was really mean to them and i didnt do anything about it, but once i started hanging out with them, i became really good friends with them. i've even bn to their houses before. although they both knew they were gay, they were best friends with each other and they made it clear to each other that they didnt like each other in that way. once they came out, everyone was expecting that they'd be a couple, but it never happened. i still talk to one of them today. another thing u can do is go on a holiday to clear you're head. mayb come to sydney australia and visit some of the beaches we have down here. lots of chicks. it will give u a chance to meet me too and hang out.
2006-08-19 16:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a bicurious male myself but i would NEVER do that crap to anyone (female or male)...and if he was your friend he wouldn't put you through that type of stuff..but don't be angry with him..he is probably going through a lot of sh.it and what you need to do is tell him flat out that you are not interested in males, just be calm with him and he will eventually understand, and don't listen to these other freaks advice..they know nothing...but he is probably goign through a rough time right now so being calm with him would be the best thing to do.....but don't let him take advantage of your friendship
2006-08-19 16:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
help ? If you were sure you like the Girls would not request help
The question here is clarify your mind
Maybe you admire him and you respect it and you have a
Normal curiosity for the aspect gay but if you like girls
Don't made a mistake, tell to your friend that you respect his sexuality and ask him respect yours ..hey just learn to say NOt
2006-08-19 16:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by pbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This actually happened to friends of mine...just tell him flat out that you arent into guys (unless you have done something to make him think otherwise) and tell him if he doesnt stop then you are going to have to stop talking to him
2006-08-19 16:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not gay! You should have done that off the jump. Don't worry about what's happening with him, worry about yourself. You really need to tell him.
2006-08-19 16:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by Libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him nicely that you are not gay and do not wish to have a relationship with him. Inform him you are only interested in girls & be stern about it so he knows your serious.
If he persists in messaging you about it then block him.
2006-08-19 16:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seriously you need to kick his *** for jst coming out and acting like a strait friend for all these years. then avoid him completely and call him a pillow biter.
2006-08-19 16:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Bill D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him! Dude your name is paintballz, did it ever occur to you that your name is a huge turn on to him, he obviously wants to paint your balls, so change your name. That is your only hope!
2006-08-19 16:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go &$%# himself and uer not gay ad if he doesnt leav kick the living &*$% out of him
2006-08-19 16:05:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋