2006-08-19 15:56:23 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Learn how to spell.... you had sex at 13 got her pregnant and now you dont know what to do... foolish.. you should have thought about the consequences before you got her pregnant ... but now that you ruined her young life you should try to fix it. Oh yeah her dad is going to chop of ur d i c k and your balls good luck with that stupid
2006-08-27 05:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well when you had sex in the first place you should've went to get the morning after pill...you can take it after you had unsafe sex and it will help your girl friend from getting pregnant...you can't wait more than 5 days to take this pill...and the earlier you take it the better it works..but if she's allready pregnant than this pill won't help.So you should tell your parents and her parents what happened and they will deffinantly be disapointed,but at least you will get all that off your shoulders.If they let her get an abortion than that might be the best thing to do right now at your age. Yes,abortion is not a good way to handle the situation,but I would'nt want to have a kid at 13.
Good luck
2006-08-22 06:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Abercrombiebabe90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off: Stay in School and graduate! Maybe some grammar lessons would help, also.
Second off: Are you sure she is pregnant? At 13, girl's bodies can (and usually do) scare the living hell out of you so that you won't do it again..Remember-you can't get work at 13. So, just try to not be in a hurry to grow up. It isn't all it's cracked up to be! If she is pregnant, you will be in a world of hurt, for sure. At the very least, you won't be allowed to ever see her at home again.
2006-08-27 00:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mudcat007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might I suggest you learn the English language first. If you had done so you'd know that 13 is not the age for consensual sex, and you'd have been able to read the instructions on the condom wrapper. This has got to be a joke.
2006-08-25 12:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by aveinda137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is very young. There are plenty of agencies for adoption of babies of teenage kids. They also have trained consolers there to talk to. Also you could talk to a teacher or an adult you trust. I got pregnant at 16, but I kept my child. at 13 i would not suggust you keep the child because you are way too young to get jobs. At least at 16 i could work. The father is still in the picture. He comes and see's his baby girl everyday and we are currently still together. Be a man and stand up for your girl. If she and her family decide to keep the baby, you and your family need to help support it. You both have made a huge mistake and I pray that you both make the right decision. If you need me...you can contact me thro this. I guess I am just lucky that things ended up working out for me, but I am willing to help you
2006-08-19 18:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by moon and starz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck because if she is PG. Your screwed. Better suck it up and be a daddy! Plus, If you are adult to have sex your adult enough to take care of that child before she ask for child support! Then that would suck!.. But remember you was an adult by having sex at 13. So I sure you can shell out the money and care for the child right? Better get a job!?!
2006-08-19 16:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all are you sure she is pregnant? Has she had a test done at the doctors office or did she just miss her period? sometimes girls can miss their periods from stress. Second, you need to tell your parents, both of your parents as soon as you know for sure. and if shes not pregnant at least use a condom for god's sake you are only 13 you shouldnt be having sex in the first place.
2006-08-19 16:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by milknhoney4ever 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ur dead. Her dad is going to kill you, he's going to chop every single piece of you and then bury you in his backyard. You are so so so so dead. You might wanna kick her down the stairs, cuz thats the only choice you have, if you dont want her parents to know. Or get an abortion or adoption. By the way, try to do the spell check every once in a while. Stay in school.
2006-08-19 16:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't ever think of doing abortion! That's murder! That will haunt you for the rest of your life!
Accept it, tell it to the ones that can understand your situation. I suggest your pastor. Make him a bridge to your parents and her parents on letting them know.
Be prepared of misunderstanding, arguments, trouble and stuff. Don't argue with them, just show them that you're guilty and that you didn't want it to happen!
Time will make your parents understand and they'll accept it. They will help you on raising the child. But don't be dependent. Work hard for the future.
Don't live in sin with your girlfriend, marry her in legal age. Love her naturally don't force it.
2006-08-19 20:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school is the best advise. Get a good job so that you can help her support your child and for the love of god please don't become a deadbeat dad or her father is going to hunt you down and do some serious pain to you.LOL
2006-08-27 04:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by KEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋