I am very serious with the woman I'm with now, serious as in after college I want to ask her to marry me. The other night she was playing with my cell which I've had for around 2 years, mind you I haven't taken pictures with it for about a year and a half, i.e. before we met. She found pictures that were taken when I went on vacation with the guys, and they were bad pictures. Me making out, Boobs, my face in boobs, some girls gine, etc. I wasn't holding on to the memories, I just forgot they were even there. Anyway, she handled it well and when I told her that it was before her she was okay with it and said she trusts me. I know women hold on to things, and there is a good chance it is still on her mind.
What would you all do if you found naughty pictures of your sig. other that they told you were taken before you two even met?
m.
2006-08-19 15:56:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You bet its still on her mind. She is rationalizing. She is thinking that she knows you and you wouldn't do that now but there is always that little voice in the back asking her if she is sure about you. I hope you have already deleted the pics. Next time she comes over have the phone out so she can see it. Tell her you meant to toss it or trade it in or whatever you are going to do with it. . Leave her (casually) alone with the phone so she can check and see if they are gone. She will more than likely check it out. I would. We cant help it. If she brings it up tell her of course you got rid of them. If she doesnt mention it you don't need to either. Just get rid of the pics and after she checks it you can get rid of the phone. See that she is with you when you do that too. She probably does believe you (I would) but there is something to be said for seeing it. You 2 sound like you are gonna do alright. this come from experience of a 35 year marriage. m
2006-08-19 16:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would believe her and than let it go. I would also show her pictures of myself. My girl friend is calling you on your forgetfulness. She suggests asking your girl to replace the old pictures with new ones.
2006-08-19 16:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would be pissed..but after I calmed down I would calmly ask my man wth he has these photo's..then if he told me what you told your girl I would try to understand..maybe a bit difficult to believe..but in the end if I cared about him enough I would still trust him...
Good luck man..
2006-08-19 16:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by Savanna 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be upset..you might still want to erase them in front of her just to show her you dont care about the pics
2006-08-19 16:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh oh you better get ready.... she is thinking about something!!!!!! Just a joke! About your question I would just delete those naughty pictures and give him mines.
2006-08-19 16:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have trouble with it for a while, but as long as it stays in the past and doesn't happen again, I'd get over it.
2006-08-19 16:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋