Should I have sex with my girlfriend at 14 or should I wait until im in high school?.
2006-08-19 15:38:28 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
OK 14 is WAY to young to be having Sex with someone! You should wait LONGER! I mean if you have sex with your girlfriend now that means you are having Sex with someone else wife in the future! And Sex if you have sex now then that means there is someone else in this world that knows what you look like naked! But you do whatever you want I would just advise you not to!
2006-08-19 15:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by monkeygirl2393 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait till you are ready to handle the fact that you could be a father and have a baby. It is not an accident that a woman gets pregnant. It is an avoidance that we do to wear a condom or pull out or not go all the way...etc. The pregnancy is what is supposed to happen with sex. That is why we have these parts - to make babies. If it was not fun and put a smile on our faces, we would not have sex and the population would die off.....
No timetable is necessary to have sex. Please wait till you find someone old enough and love enough to spend the rest of your life together. The sex is better then too....
Note in many states you could be considered raping the girl if she is not of age. There is no concent "out clause" to be considering it rape.
2006-08-19 15:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am almost 16, but i am waiting until i am married. I know this may sound forgien to alot of teens these days, but that is what you are supposed to do. There is no reason why 12 and 13 year olds should be having sex, that is gross!!!!! People need to grow up before they start doing something like that. I mean atleast wait until you are a senior in high school!
2006-08-19 15:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're still a bit young, I'm 14 as well but I'm waiting at least another year, because I don't want to get a bad rep. or anything.... and also cuz I want to be in a serious relationship when it does happen... if you're not in a serious relationship don't do it, because you only have one first time and you might regret it. My guess is, if you have to ask if you should have sex, you're not ready, because when you are, you'll just know. But if you do choose to have sex with her, make sure you use a condom.... unless you wanna be a daddy!?
Good luck, hope you make the right choice for yourself...
Love electricarizona«
2006-08-19 16:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude am 17 and still a virgin! If i can wait am sure u can wait. Unless u wanna grow up at age 14 and have to take care of a baby! i suggest u do it when ur old enough and when ur ready! But better yet wait till u get married!
2006-08-19 15:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by gurlygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you should wait until you're out of high school and in a relationship that you think is worth going the distance. You have to know that the other person is first of all safe to have sex with. You should know their history, if they have any STDs, etc. You should be able to trust youru partner to tell you the truth about these things. I also advocate safe sex and using condoms. They are invaluable for protecting you from STDs and unplanned pregnancy.
But really, just make sure your significant other is worth it and be safe.
2006-08-19 15:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ideally you should wait until you are married. Seriously. The crap that happens when you get yourself into that stuff this early! Wait until you've found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. You'll be so happy that you did. At least wait until you are out of high school.
2006-08-19 15:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by Margie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately wait until high school. If you aren't sure about if the time is right ask yourself the question:
Are you ready to be a parent, if the time calls for it?
This is a very big decision.
2006-08-19 15:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by eurogirl120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till after high school, after college, if you plan on going, and the right time is till marriage. having sex won't show how much you love her.
2006-08-19 16:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you need to deff. wait. u might TOTALLY regret it later on. my boyfriend whos 19 now had sex when he was 14 and im a virgin. he regrets its sooo much he wishes he was a virgin too cuz im saving myself until i get married. itll be so much better to do it with someone you care about and you know will always be there.
hope i helped♥
2006-08-19 15:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋