I am a Virgo and she is a Gemini, will that work?

Answer 1

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Gemini & Virgo

When Gemini and Virgo come together in a love affair, it's crucial to the survival of the relationship that they take time to learn about one another's approach to life and love -- and remember that both partners' attitudes are worth understanding! Gemini is symbolized by the Twins; they can see both sides of a story, they tend to vacillate between two courses of action and sometimes they can seem as if they have a split personality! This relationship is greatly strengthened when steady Virgo provides one Twin with a steady emotional anchor while allowing the other Twin to flit about at will. Virgo may be a bit too serious and demanding for Gemini, especially if this occurs early in the relationship before Gemini has fully committed. If Virgo just gives it time, things will smooth out.

Virgo and Gemini's approaches to life are seemingly so different that mutual acceptance can be hard to come by -- especially since Virgo tends to be so critical and exacting. Gemini strains against Virgo's ultra-practical stance in the world, and Virgo tires quickly of Gemini's flighty ways. They do have much to teach one another, however. Virgo can help Gemini to be more involved in life and to see the depth of ideas rather than simply the surface. Gemini can help bring fun and excitement into Virgo's life.

Both Signs are ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication). Gemini represents the masculine aspect of Mercury, Virgo the feminine (Mercury itself is androgynous). Virgo wants a dependable partner and therefore uses the penchant for clear communication toward forming the perfect relationship. Gemini is more intellectually focused than Virgo but does have a gift in relating to others.

Virgo is an Earth Sign and Gemini is an Air Sign. Virgo is practical, direct and precise. Virgo asks, "How will this help me achieve my goals in life?" while Gemini, who moves through life relying on their mind, doesn't waste time focusing on where they're headed, but rather simply goes where their mind leads. Virgo's fussy, critical nature and Gemini's aloof detachment and capriciousness can cause trouble for both partners. Virgo must understand that Gemini's flirtatious nature does not affect their feelings regarding the relationship, and Gemini must help to foster that understanding through words and deeds.

Virgo and Gemini are both Mutable Signs. Both are quite flexible; both are able to adapt to change at a moment's notice. Both can be somewhat wishy-washy, however, Gemini due to their incessant intellectual ruminations and Virgo due to their penchant for analysis rather than action.

What's the best aspect of the Gemini-Virgo relationship? The security they can give each other -- once Virgo allows Gemini to commit willingly to the relationship. As long as they communicate with each other and use their Mercury powers effectively, theirs will be a gratifying relationship.

Answer 2

Both signs are ruled by Mercury. You, the virgo, is probably a perfectionist, where gemini is more scattered. You could work well together good mentaly i think. You might have problems... but you never know... Hope everything works out right... Gemini's generally do not like critisism, though... Hope this helps
Jesse

Answer 3

Both Gemini and Virgo share Mercury as their mother planet. You have heard the expression: "She/he is very Mercurial...?" That is a reference to communication. You both enjoy communication and that is one of the most important aspects of any relationship. However, you may get frustrated when you try to analyze why she keeps changing her mind or flinches from one project to the other, as you are very methodical and disciplined until you see a task to the end. Good luck to you both. :-)

Answer 4

Geminis aren't really clean freaks like us but if you don't let that bother you than maybe! The will probably do what you say!

Answer 5

There are various other factors to consider and astrology is one very insignificant and bogus factor to take note.

Factors like whether both of you can communicate well, whether both of you truly love each other.. (true love - partner before self for everything), etc..

Answer 6

If you care alot about the horoscope , then it won't work. Cos in your mind , there's already the thought of you guys not working out.

Answer 7

Oh come on- if the stars are against you but you really like her, are you going to dump her? Who cares. Love is love- there are no rules.

Answer 8

my husband traded me in for a younger version, he divorced me........ he's a virgo, I'm a gemini!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

People work..not astrology, that's bogus

Answer 10

should have a natal chart done for the both of you.