if i sleep with my best firends wife should i tell him?

Answer 1

No, do you have a death wish?!

Answer 2

Depends on how much he likes you, depends on if the relationship should end anyways... Depens on if you want to still be friends... Depends on the circuimstance...

I'd say... that a honorable person would have told him... But I guess his wife still hasn't... If this was a one time thing... His wife and him are happy... and he dosen't suspect... I'd really say to just not tell him... Or at least wait a while before telling him... If she does this all the time, then I'd suggest that you do tell him...

I guess put it this way, if you believe the relationship should end between then, then tell him... If you think that it is a good relationship and this was a stupid mistake that will not happen again (with the wife cheating with anyone) then don't tell him... Just be carefull when he does find out if you dont' tell him..

Answer 3

You have already made a mistake. It does not make any differance. He will find out some how. Your friend ship is over. He is no longer your best friend. The truth always comes out ! You are now going to hurt 3 or more people for a a little while of what you thought or think was injoyment. Next time you have a best friend keep your pants pulled up.

Answer 4

Yes but from a distance...let's say like over the phone from another state maybe? Bad move buddy. And I don't think I'd be referring to him as your best friend. With friends like that, the man needs no enemies. Friends, true friends anyway, don't **** on their buddies. What happened to the guy code everyone talks about? Lots of loyalty going on there!

Answer 5

First of all, you shouldn't sleep with your best friends wife. Even if she wants you to sleep with her, do not help her commit adultery!
What kind of "best friend" would you be if you allow yourself to have sex with someone he is married to?
Don't do it, but if you're not going to listen to all of us and go ahead and do it, then yes, it would only be right to tell him... however, think about it... do you really want to crush and hurt your best friend that badly? Because if you are willing to put yourself in a position in which the best friend of this man and his wife both betray him then you aren't really his best friend.
Please remember what goes around comes around, that's all.

Answer 6

First off you need to re-read what you wrote and learn to spell.
2nd..
Why would you sleep with your best friends wife?
Are you that desperate that you can't get you own woman? And I bet he won't think much about his wife being a whore but that his best friend would actually do that to him. He should whoop your ***!

Answer 7

well you shouldnt be sleeping with wife for one. But i dont see the point of telling him at this point. Youll ruin the marraige and your friendship. Just lie for the rest of your life.

Answer 8

Nope...you shouldn't. You also should not even consider sleeping with her, because she is married to your best friend, and you know, friends are hard to come by.....it does not sound like you are a good friend to him if you consider sleeping with his wife....

Answer 9

This all depends on if you want to be shot or not! Personally, I'd choose a women who isn't married just to keep things on the safe side!

Answer 10

u mean slept, because if u didnt sleep with her then i think u shouldnt. that is the worst thing you can do to a friend. And i guess you should tell him, its the right thing and if he finds out it may be worst. either way...u real close to losing a friend!

Answer 11

it depends.....if you love this woman and she feels the same way then it is important to tell him...because obviously there is a problem in their marraige, but if this is osmething which isnot really serious but a one-time thing then dont....why ruin relationships...however you will have to face your friend with guilt everytime you see him...can you live with that?