my ex girlfriend hurt me very badly and she says she wants to get back together with me and yet she is still with a guy that lives over 4 hours away from her and she rarely see's him. and i still love her and need to know what to do.
2006-08-19 15:27:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay,
Relationships and a glass of milk have a lot in common. When they are fresh, they are quite tasty and refreshing. When they go bad, you know when they go bad. Somehow people know that they have to throw away the bad glass of milk before they can get a fresh glass of milk. When it comes to relationships, people will do anything to continuiously poison themselves with someone that did them wrong.
I know you're hurting. But your best option right now is to stay the hell away from her. Go get drunk and sleep in a ditch for a while, smoke a bowl and watch some porn, pick up some broads, do whatever it takes to get the skank out of your hair. You don't need that nonsense.
2006-08-19 15:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by SpankyTClown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you still love so it means there is still a way-where there is a will there is a way- so talk clearly with her and ask her why she did what she did and if you are convinced about her answer don't suffer any more and continue the relationship.But it is very important for you to clear up all your dudes before re-starting and things will work out.Good luck !
2006-08-19 15:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by hope55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide which is the worse heartache, loving her and being with her, or loving her an being without her. You have to see her for who she really is, not who you wish she would be. Sounds to me like she just wants you around because the other guy isn't. You have to really look at what is good for YOU. Girls will come and go, but your heart you have to live with. And if its grieving all the time because of what someone is doing to you, that's not good for you.
2006-08-19 15:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Peter Pan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's willing to cheat on her current boyfriend, chances are she'll cheat on you too. I'd say tell her you're not interested (it will be hard, I know) and try to find another interesting (and more honest) girl. There's plenty out there, you just gotta find them!
2006-08-19 15:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by Duende71 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Na! dude move on. rally your mates, go on a piss up, meet a new girl who lives five minutes from you and live happily ever after.
2006-08-19 15:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen to Rascal Flatts #1 song 'What Hurts the Most', if you really love her you won't let her go
2006-08-19 15:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by rsclflat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋