i cheated on my boyfriend of 5yrs he murderd my lover and now i have lost both of them and i blam myself how could i have known he would do something like this i thought people cheat everyday and get away with it but when i do it all hell breakes loose how do i live withmyself???
2006-08-19 15:15:57 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If there is anything to use as a learning experience I would say this is it.
2006-08-19 15:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is true, there is someone out there every day that is cheating on their mates. But it is wrong anyway you want to look at it. If you have a problem with the person that you are with, you need to just break up with them and go on with your life. I personally hate a cheater very much.You didn't not make him kill the other person, he did that on his own. He was just in a rage over you cheating on him.Now he has to pay for what he did. When something like this happens, every body has to pay the price.
2006-08-19 16:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you aren't too bright - were you cheating because you thought you could "get away with it"? Your original relationship was obviously lacking something or you wouldn't have been cheating in the first place.
For future reference - if you don't wish to be with someone any longer, clear up those issues before you start hopping in the sack with somebody else. What did you expect? The boyfriend to send a congratulations card???
Get real
2006-08-19 15:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it to your local non-denominational church... Tell the pastor you need some VERY REAL HELP and make an appointment for later that week, if he's unable to see you right away... Explain your situation in full and he'll tell you what needs to be done... By doing this, you should be able to sleep alot better from now on...
2006-08-19 15:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor girl...I can't imagine how horrible you feel..If I were in your situation I would go to church more often & pray to god, also have a confesion...Just try to keep strong! We all have regrets, some are far worse then others..No matter BIG or SMALL regrets you have to let things go..You also learn from your regrets & become a stronger person, there's always a bright side to every situation...
I wish you all the luck in the world..
Sincerly,
-Savanna
2006-08-19 15:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by Savanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of Soap Opera world do you live in Honey? You boyfriend, well ex-boyfriend needs to go to jail and thats all there is to it. He probably had a few issues you didnt know about. Though luck, thats why cheaters never win doll ~Amber
2006-08-19 15:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The young people have a saying I like; "What goes around, comes around". You sound like a young person. Did you think "I can get away with it?" The jails are full of such. How to live with this? Remember it. This can save you in the future.
Vaya con DIOS
2006-08-19 15:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by chrisbrown_222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a Catholic, i really dont think that you should do anything they said but therapy. I do think that you should seek some forgiveness from not only God but yourself. Always remember that you msy have sinned a great sin, but he sinned an even greater sin. So I think that you should forget about him, try to move on, and try to seek comfort with someone who is faithful and stays faithful, and likes to talk stuff out.
2006-08-19 15:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Conor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't have done it in da first place ain't nobody gonna feel sorry for u u brought it on urself now somebody is dead because of ur wrong doing i know it may sound harsh but somebody needed to tell u i can't stand cheaters ive been cheated on too many times and its not fun sweetheart
2006-08-19 15:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated and your BF killed your lover! Now your here on yahoo answers to talk about it? Yea right if your gonna tell a story tell a better one
2006-08-19 15:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't get into a relationship until you know for a fact that it is with the person you want to spend your life with. I don't understand and have never understood why people go outside of their marriage. Why not just leave the relationship and then sleep with who you want...I just don't get it.
2006-08-19 15:21:25 · answer #11 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋