Its been like this forever, everytime my bf fingers me or plays with my clit, i get this weird feeling in my stomach after its all done...like my stomach hurts...its been the same way with my ex. so can someone tell me what does that mean? (Im still a virgin)
2006-08-19 15:11:17 · 12 answers · asked by krissy_pod 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It sounds like it may be stress related.
Your still a virgin ( congratulation and be proud of it)
But anyway, it sounds like you tense up a lot when allowing men to touch you in such an intimate way. And by tensing up your muscles and/or body it is causing cramps.
If you do not want the men touching you and you feel uncomfortable doing it then do not let them. Do not compromise yourself and your virginity for anyone.
If you do want them touching you in that manner then try to relax more and enjoy it. Allow yourself to give in to the way it makes you feel. Give into the climax and let yourself go with it. Believe me nothing feels better.
If you are afraid of things going further then you want to then be conscience enough to say NO or STOP, if he is your boyfriend then I would hope that he loves you enough to do so.
But like I said..........NEVER compromise your self, your virginity, or your morals for ANYONE. Stay true to yourself.
2006-08-27 13:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could pyscological in a sense not literally, but plainly your going through the changes, but your going to find out that not just your stomach will hurt.
(Best Advice)........Tell Mr. Finger guy to keep his fingers out your privates. Thats a good way to spread bacteria and cause problems. No bull....keep the hands out of that area unless they belong to you at least you know where your hand have been:):)
Happy Days are here again!
2006-08-27 04:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you get Cramps the moment your bf plays or touches your clits. I understand you to be a bit more concerned. Also it seems your are more shy and thats why you get cramps.
Try to enjoy with your bf. dont be shy. If you feel shy then dont try doing this. BUT if you want your bf play with your clits then please dont be shy. Have fun
All will be OK.
relax and enjoy. okie ?
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Best Wishes
2006-08-24 18:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by itsme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 07:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by sarver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS FEELINGS OF GUILT I WOULD SAY. IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE NOT QUITE READY FOR THE ACTIVITIES IN WHICH YOU ARE ENGAGING.
ALSO, HAVE YOU EVER BEEN A VICTIM OF SEXUAL ASSAULT OR ANY ABUSE? THIS CAN ALSO CAUSE YOU TO HAVE BAD BELLY PAINS LIKE THIS.
IF YOU TRULY FEEL THAT NEITHER OF THESE APPLY TO YOU THEN MY OTHER THOUGHT WOULD BE THAT PERHAPS YU ARE CONTRACTING MUSCLES IN YOUR STOMACH TOO HARD WHILE THIS IS GOING ON AND THAT WOULD ALSO CAUSE SOME TUMMY CRAMPS.
2006-08-25 13:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to ur doctor and tell them the problem but i think that it might be that u enjoyed it so much that u may have brocken into a cold sweat and u get a stomach ache
2006-08-19 15:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i get that after im done i guess its only natural after a hard work..lol . anyway i'd say go to doctor to see if its ok.... i wish you well
2006-08-27 14:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by pisceslady a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but i get that 2 weird
2006-08-19 17:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats a new one I have not heard of that.
2006-08-27 14:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See your doctor.
2006-08-19 15:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋