Michelle cause she is christian and I can trust her not to tell anyone Sara's family dosen't know should she go to the guidance counsler and talk it out or should I tell her family or just stay out of it ?? please help
2006-08-19 15:06:37 · 9 answers · asked by GirlLab 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Stay out of it...she will discuss it with her parents in her own time and in her own way. The last thing she needs is for you to go and tell her parents before she is prepared to discuss it with them because then it will just end badly. Be a good friend and support her, let her talk things out to you if she needs to, but you shouldn't say anything to anyone else because she is trusting you.
2006-08-19 15:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by stall_out 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok you shouldn;t have told anything to anyone because I am pretty sure your friend Sara wanted you to keep this secret with you and only you. So you should just continue on with you life, even though I know you probably want to tell her family or somebody else. You should let Sara do what ever she wants. There may be a huge reason why her family doesn't know, and when the time comes for Sara (without interference from you or anyone else) she will tell her family. Sara doesn't have to go to the counsler, unless she thinks she needs help.
2006-08-19 15:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by Fleshy-Straightjackets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Don't tell her family. It'd ruin your friendship if she ever found out you were the one who "outed" her. You should be honored to have been one of the people she trusted enough to tell. That's a frightening thing to share with people.
If she's conflicted about it, you can suggest that she see her guidance councelor or a family friend. But if she's comfortable with herself and her sexuality then just let her deal with it on her own.
2006-08-19 15:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by megan_of_the_swamp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure and that i do have many gay acquaintances.In a experience if someone confides in you about their sexual orientation it truly is a demonstration of trust and that could want to by no ability be betrayed. i imagine if people are uncomfortable and drop those acquaintances, they are homophobic deep down, religiously fanatical to the point of intolerance, and or have sexual id complications like Sen Larry Craig or Rep Mike Foley. I take position to trust that there's a organic and organic area of homosexuality, so rejecting those persons might want to be as ridiculous as doing so because of pores and skin or hair colour, nationality, or faith. i ought to assert that I genuinely should recognize the honesty of those who expressed reservations.that reinforces the verbal replace between different perspectives.
2016-11-05 04:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by shuey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay Out..Dont Be Around Them...
2006-08-19 16:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should stay out of it it is her life it is so ok to be gay trust me i know it may seem gross at first but u have to accept your friend for who she is believe me i have two gay uncles that had a wedding ceromony it was pretty hard to get use to but dont worry u will =)
2006-08-19 15:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by somehornygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have said anything cuz thats how rumours and drama get started and then everybody gets mad at u and u end up with no friends
2006-08-19 16:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by crystal h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it but don't stop being her friend
2006-08-19 15:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it and just go make out with her
2006-08-19 15:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋