I am a woman myself, but I will say this... If a woman does not agree to it, and the man wants the variety, he will go and get it elsewhere anyway, he will just cheat. I agree that at least with an open relationship there is honesty, and it can actually be alot of fun. I have been to specialist parties in the past with my partner and it was awesome. You can love a partner and have fun with others. You still go home to your partner and the end and love each other
2006-08-19 15:16:02
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answered by Donna : 4
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Cuz most of us girls still have the tiniest bit of hope that somewhere out there is a great guy((obviously not you)) but women want to be THE ONE for a guy. We want to be the first thing he thinks about in the morning and the last thing he thinks about before he goes to bed, women often put a lot into relationships and don't we deserve to get some back?? We deal with a lot of s h i t from you guys and have our hearts broken countless times. If a guy cares about a girl and her feelings then he will be faithful to her and not need other women.
2006-08-19 22:12:05
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answered by theblonchic 2
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Until recent times women needed men to support them when the had children.If a man had many lovers he might have many children with different women. He would be unable to support many families successfully unless he was extremely wealthy and powerful.
I am not a male chauvinist, I am stating the obvious truth.
I guess that the unwillingness to consider an open relationship stems from this.
2006-08-19 22:13:44
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answered by brwnidjkmo 3
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Open relationships go against nature, man. It's in our DNA. Humans are one of many species who mate for life. This need for assured lifelong protection and companionship is felt moreso by women than men, whose biological imperative is to repopulate the planet ten times over with their millions and millions of sperm. It's a tricky business. Not much middle ground. Good luck.
2006-08-19 22:16:31
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answered by miguelitabonita 4
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the key point there is honesty...it would take a special level of communication and total honesty for a couple to enter into a open relationship
2006-08-19 22:11:46
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answered by panda64 4
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What's the point in being in a relationship if you can't commit. that's not a relationship, it's friends with benefits. One shouldn't lower themselves to such a level to allow their bodies to be used by so many yet insist that they are in a true relationship. If you love someone, you don't want to mess around on them.
2006-08-19 22:12:58
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answered by ? 4
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because when it comes to emotions (see love) girls drive on an 8 lane highway WHILE GUYS ARE ON A 2 LANE ROAD and when it comes to sex guys are flying out of an international airport and girls are taking off from a MUNICIPAL AIRPORT
2006-08-19 22:16:53
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answered by brandon 2
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because some ov us r greedy,and dont like to share.would u feel the same way if it was ur girlfriend sleeping around? i take it this question was asked by a man!
2006-08-19 22:34:23
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answered by Anonymous
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Why don't more boys consider monogamy?
Please do note that I said "boys". Real men wouldn't ask such an idiotic question.
2006-08-19 22:11:07
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answered by Road Warrior 4
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I always thought it was the guys that didnt want an open relationship.....
2006-08-19 22:10:36
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answered by prettyeyez27 1
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