am i wrong for this?

Question

okay see thing is ive been with this boy for 4 months now,we love each you know the usual teen stuff.well the thing is he does suff like he will tell my best friends that he would date them if he was single or he'll tell them that he wants to hit that and all kind of stuff like that.so i told him about it and he said that im always making fights out of nothing but thats so not true.thats like the only thing ive ever said like this to him.and he starts cussing at me and stuff.i tell myself when he does this like maybe he had a bad day.and plus i havent seen him all summer and i skipped the first 2 days of school and the 1st day ill see him is monday.he told me that i should just leave and go do something with myself.i dont want to dump him at all but i know that i have an issue of arguing but i know that im not the only one who needs to change.if i were to have a talk about this would i be wrong? what do u think i should do? any answer is helpful and im 13 so dont ask...Thanks yall!!!!!

Answer 1

Honey, you are more mature than he is and no asking him to sit down and try to talk it out is not wrong, but if he doesn't want to and start to cuss at you maybe you should find someone a little more mature who will treat you like the queen that you are.

Answer 2

Most boys and even men for that matter get mad at a question only if they are trying to cover up a lie. He's probably lying to you about something. Dumping him would be the best thing you ever did, but you don't have to trust my answer. Just thought I'd try and help. Good luck!

Answer 3

He sounds like someone you need to distance yourself from as soon as possible. If he blows up like that and then tells you things about your friends like that, he has some real issues that you should not ignore. Learn something from this relationship. You should never stay with someone who flys off the handle easily and who disrespects you by saying he'd like to go out with your friends. Why stay with someone like that? Have respect for yourself.

Answer 4

My ONLY advice is get out of this relationship before you get hurt really bad. You should not have to put up with any of this, he is not worth it, and you will feel better about yourself if u leave him. This will also give you a chance to date other boys this school year, not all of them will treat you this way.

Answer 5

Honey,
The best thing to do is leave his sorry butt. You are setting yourself up for a lifetime of abuse if you let this go...You're 13 and you have plenty of time to find the right guy...Take care of school first and then worry about men. Let him find you...don't go searching.

Answer 6

You are to young to have to worry about stuff like this dump him and explore new things. Live your life to the fullest and don't let this fool hold you back. DUMP HIM NOW!!!!

Answer 7

I think try to get another boyfriend and put him aside for a while,if he reacts,he may apologize, but you must make sure you ignore him for a while if he like continues apologizing for a good time them it's u'r decission

Answer 8

you should dump him!! you deserve better than that. Besides you are young you should be out there uncommited. There are plenty of fish in the sea.. find the best for you. the one you got aint it!!

Answer 9

YOU SHOULD BREAK UP WITH HIM YOUR BOYFRIEND SHOULDN'T BE TELLING YOUR FRIENDS HE WANTS TO HIT THAT I WOULDN'T LIKE A GUY TELLING MY FRIENDS HE WOULD DATE HIM IF THEY WERE SINGLE AND HE PROBABLY ALREADY DATING HIM BEHIND YOUR BACK DO THE RIGHT THING GIRL YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO LOOK IN SOURCES

Answer 10

He probly has had a hard day, so take him somewhere private, tell him to spread his legs and. . . . . . Kick !!!!!!!!! then leave and tell him to go Phuk himself. Ya that will make him feel better. . . no one deserves to be mistreated, especially that young.