Would it be something that would come back to haunt me?
2006-08-19 14:50:09 · 33 answers · asked by kimgirlscout 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not sure if you believe in God but if you do you should pray and ask God to help you through this. He will if you ask him!! Don't cheat on him because it is wrong and it won't make you fell a any better. You will be just as wrong as him! And any it is Gods place to take revenge not ours! Please don't do it.. Pray and ask God for help and guidance!! Turn it over to God and let him handle it for you. God Bless
2006-08-19 15:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by nesha0349 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cheating on your husband might give you some short-lived satisfaction, but at the end of the day, it doesn't change the fact that he was unfaithful to you. If you resort to tit for tat here, no one really wins. Whereas if you take the moral high road and refrain from cheating, you won't have to wonder if it would come back to haunt you. You have to search your heart and decide for yourself if cheating would really make you feel better.
2006-08-19 15:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes, 2 wrongs don't make a right. I would avoid cheating on him, the only reason you would be doing it would be to hurt him as badly as he has hurt you. You are assuming he cares enough to even be hurt by such an act. He may not care, then it was done for nothing. If you are feeling vengeful then maybe a break from one another to clear your head would be better. This is something you need to decide if you can forgive. This should not be about getting even.
2006-08-19 14:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer to that question. Two wrongs don't make a right.
If you love him enough to forgive and forget. I have learned one thing in life, you have to be COMFORTABLE with the person you are with! Once the comfort is lost, the love is lost. The old adage once a cheat, always a cheat, I don't believe, I believe people can change, but you have to be able to talk to each other and have that comfort to delve into each others feelings.
Can you forgive and forget???
Can you look at him and not think about it ever again???
Can you get mad and NOT ever throw it in his face???
Because if you can't do the above.........then just leave....it won't be worth it! Then do as you please.
2006-08-19 14:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on him would feel great for about one or two days but then when you catch him cheating theres nothing you can say. Don't get into the dirty water with him..your better than that.
My mom always told me to be a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom and pshycologist on the couch...he'll have no where else to go but to you.... If none that works ..through his *** out... Once you've done all you can, you can assure yourself it's not you its him.
2006-08-19 14:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by sabsfire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have actually seen him with another women in a sexual manner or somewhat close to that then don't assume he's cheating on you because you may just be wrong and if you go out and sleep with someone else on a "I know he's cheating on me whim then you could find yourself in a very sticky situation when your feelings are wrong and he actually isn't cheating but yet you have already cheated on him because you thought he cheated on you.
Be your own detective girl. If he is really cheating on you it'll eventually come out to light. Because the old saying goes:
"What is done in the dark will eventually come out to light" And honey take it from me IT DOES!!!!!!
2006-08-19 16:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Most men who cheat will continue to cheat but if they're caught they'll be more careful. Some men truly regret their mistake and remain faithful once the issues that contributed to the infidelity are worked out but boy are those men rare.
2006-08-19 15:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't haunt you, it will just be pointless. If he's cheating on you, then leave him. Cheating on him isn't going to fix anything. It won't make him change and it definitely won't take away the pain. Its time to move on with your life. The best revenge you can get is to show him that you will be fine without him.
2006-08-19 15:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by Lana L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would come back to haunt you. Be the better person. Confront him and decide how you will proceed. Either leave, or forgive him with the agreement that it won't happen again. If it does, you need to leave. Don't date until you are divorced.
2006-08-19 14:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kare♥Bear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on him isnot the best option. Do you still ove him? Can you ever forgive him? Do you want to work it out? Maybe counseling for you or both. Does he want to stay in the marriage? All these questions must be answered before you take the next step. Step carefully whatever you decide to do.
2006-08-19 15:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you wouldn't feel better. It just makes you as cheap as he is, you don't want to do that. Keep your integrity. If you can't work things out, then just get a divorce, or it puts you down on his level. (You will have to stand not only before a earthly judge, who won't be as good to you if you cheated too, but before God.)
I will say this though... I would forgive once, but if he has a habit of it, he WILL NOT get better with age. Only better at hiding it, or at lying when he gets caught.
AND: Amen to the sexy soccer mom - keep whatever is important to him. And let the "girlfriend" have his lying, scumming, cheating butt, she deserves him....he'll eventually do it to her, and you deserve better than that!!!
2006-08-19 14:59:35 · answer #11 · answered by savannah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋