I need some help what should i do. I mean I love my boyfriend but he is never around and this new guy call and have time me for me. I have been with my boyfriend for five years and he is talking about marriage but I dont have any engagement ring yet. What should I do?
2006-08-19 14:35:47 · 4 answers · asked by lonelychic1980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Call your boyfriend and ask him to marry you. If he hesitates, tell him its over. Then call the new guy.
One other thing to consider.
Lawyers--big money, no time.
Unemployed--no money, lots of time.
2006-08-19 14:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say scrap both and start over, and forget the whole "long distance relationship" thing, it's apparantly not for you.
I mean look at what you're doing....you're long distance cheating! You're thinking of leaving one LDR (that's just easier to type) for another one. And if you really "love" your boyfriend, why is it that all it takes for you to think about leaving him is somebody who spends more time on the phone with you?
And what if you get that engagement ring? Are you going to say that he's the right guy for you, just because he proposed? That's really shallow.
You need to get honest with yourself. First, as I said before, just end all these LDR relationships, because you've already shown that they are not enough for you, and it doesn't take much for you to abandon one, even a long term one. Second, take a little more time getting to know you...what you want, what you stand for, what you find interesting, etc. You can't start a journey until you find a starting point. Then, once you've become attuned to who you are, start looking again, but only close to home. It's apparant that quality time is important to you in a relationship, and you cannot get that over the phone.
2006-08-19 21:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm,,i think sometimes these stuff will happen,,now i'm in a long distance relationship as well,,i think some ppl will call u to cheat on your bf(in the law school) but then i think u shud do whateva u feel lk it,,it's your right,,ppl haf no right to tell u what to do but by just giving u opinion,,good luck! remember,,follow your heart!
2006-08-19 21:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess what folks! long distance relationships DON`T work
but have fun anyway
2006-08-19 21:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋