i met this girl at the club she is 23 and i am 19 i met her sitting alone by her self we talked for a bit about ourselve i told her i lived in the suburbs she told me about her trip to chicago i told her my age and she was fine with that and after the conversation she said give me call sometime and she gave me her number and you that i should call her she introduecd me to some of her friends, but there was this one guy that was protecting her like abody gaurd wich i could understand he looked like he liked her to, anyways is she intrested in me and should i ues the 2 day wait call rule
2006-08-19 14:33:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Deeno my good Man I can see you need my help. Seems to me I answered some other question of yours, ah the bleach karma thing. Okay, I'd tell my nephews this as well so here we go. don't wait for nothing, don't let any other Cat get in your way, and don't be anything but the best you you can be. that's it Sir, your ready. Now quit wasting you time on this thing and call Her up, it's going to be cool.
2006-08-19 15:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave you the number and she was nice, right? So, of course you shall call, if you are still interested, that is...lol. Yeah, just give her a call. And the 48hr. rule sounds OK as well.
Use the 48hrs. rule or whatever, - in 90% of the cases NO - but by reading your text, i have to say used the slow approach! Because the 'meeting' seemed really relaxed and she was not like all over you and the otherway around. It seems like she likes the slow approach. She is more of a 'taking it slow' type of girl and she probably doesn't even expect you to call her the next day anyways. Because she knows she looks good and she won't have any silly thoughts if you don't call right away! She likes to take things slow. That is what I think. Good luck!!!
ps Usually these types of girls are the best looking once, so you got yourself quit a catch there...lol
2006-08-19 14:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like when the man calls first, i'm old fashion I guess, I dont know about that guy that was near her, sometimes I go to a club and a guy is feelin me and I can't get him away from me. I hate the call in a few days rule, it's obvious whenever a guy does that to me. You must not approach girls often. Call her and be yourself.
2006-08-19 14:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two day call rule? There is no rule, never has been, never will be. If you like the girl call her up. If you think she was interested in someone else at the bar, this guy that was keen on her don't bother. If you like the girl, give it your all and give it a go, call the girl up, treat her like a lady!
2006-08-19 14:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by seriouslysublime 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 11:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't like it when you wait to call them back. It makes them think you're either not interested or playing mind games. If you are interested call her the next day. Depending on how the conversation goes, either call her again or ask her out.
2006-08-19 14:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a hooker with a pimp watching over her.
What is this 2-day wait rule?? Sounds really stupid to me.
When I dated guys (years ago, I'll admit I'm a lot older than you & married 34 years)... if they would wait 2 days I would think, "Oh, you finally got bored enough to call me, huh?"
Guys who really liked me wanted to spend time with me the very next day, and every day after that.
But be careful.
2006-08-19 14:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, and please use the 2-day rule. And pass along that rule to every male friend you have. The guys who don't use it and call immediately make women feel claustrophobic. Like you, we need space. There's time to make your intentions known. The space will be a sign of your maturity, which you will need in a "friendship" with an older woman.
2006-08-19 14:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by diasporas 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Who told you there was a '2-day call rule" ? Maybe they meant today. Call her, if you are interested. Call her now.
2006-08-19 14:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋