hello my husband and i havent had sex for about a month now what can i do to light the fire? please help me.
2006-08-19 14:28:13 · 16 answers · asked by claudia k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men dont really need the romancing as a woman does, but they are indeed visual creatures. Go buy something sexy to wear for him, when he comes home from work, have it on and be laying on the bed with a few toys in hand ready to give him a show. Sit him down in a chair that sits right in front of the bed, allow him ONLY to watch you masturbate. Trust me, if he doesnt want to have sex after watching you....he is gay.
2006-08-19 14:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first find the reason, have either of you been working alot? or has sex become routine? Whatever it is try to find a realease to make this problem disapear for a while, maybe go out for dinner or make a nice dinner at home light some candles and find something sexy to wear. Make him know you want him. If that doesn't work something is wrong with him, you tried your best. good luck!
2006-08-19 15:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by sadmyles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the TV out of the bedroom.
Tell him you want him in bed an hour before he normally goes to bed. Without the TV present, you will have to communicate with each other. Have him wash your back, shower together. I'm sure he will get the message. Guys are more into visual stimulation.
2006-08-19 15:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While the two of you are either on the couch or in bed, You should get close to him and begin cuddling with him. While the two of you are cuddling, start kissing on him, & fondling him all over his most sensitive parts! That should get the sparks going and begin to light his fire!!!!!!!
Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-23 05:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get some sexy lingeri and do your hair and makeup nice. lite some candles and put on some music. pour 2 glasses of wine and dim the lights. sprinkle some rose petals up to the bedroom. Have his favorite meal cooked and when he walks in the househand him the wine and kiss his neck.!!! Believe me he will get the message.
2006-08-19 15:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by LETICIA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know of any problem in particular then tonight when he's watching TV just go take a hot shower and come in to the room where he is, naked and sit down next to him.
2006-08-19 15:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it different than your regular routine? Have things changed between you two in other ways? Has he been stressed out lately? Have you tried to initiate? Try to gently find out what's on his mind. You can always be pro-active - dress in a sexy way, and touch him in the right places! :)
2006-08-19 15:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be aggressive towards him. Sounds like he has given up or something. You initiate and that will turn him on.
2006-08-20 02:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u need to find the problem tired from work drugs alcohol girlfriend boyfriend???
2006-08-19 14:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by mark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk through the house naked. Trust me, this should work.
2006-08-19 14:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋