she come's to stay in my house for couple day's at atime
she cook's clean's even my dirty clothe's
we sleep in the same bed
But i never met no parent's
and she give's me that
don't bother anybody talk
2006-08-19 14:27:00 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah, she is 'trying to be' your girl friend.
Please do respect her, she really loves you, I can tell you even though I am sitting here.
2006-08-27 02:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ω Nookey™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is what you want her to be. You're just as guilty Young Man.
You allow this behavior from her, you like it and you may even encourage it. Maybe you have never told her anything she "needs" to hear, and therefore in her actions she is showing you how much she cares for you, and is hoping for more of a long term relationship with you. Words are cheap, actions speak louder than words! She sounds like she can be a good women and knows how to take care of the Man she wants. Now, it is up to you to tell and show her that you care for her, or even love her.
Then she might open up and talk about her family and life more.
Everyone is afraid of rejection.....but we all must take a chance!
2006-08-26 02:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her the same guestion you asked us. Put it out in the open go ahead be vulnerable. Its ok. The worst that could happen is she say no you are not a couple. You need some clear deffinition here. I would. I like it when people just lay it all out on the table. I wouldn't let it continue till you know what is going on.
2006-08-26 19:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Inquisitive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are having sex...you should stop now or at least use protection until you know for sure if you are the only man she's having sex with...Why does she clean your house? I mean...is she nesting? Tell her that you don't know what to think and want to know exactly what she considers your relationship to be. if you agree with her definition then no worries...but if you don't, you should tell her to make a decision or a commitment or move on.
2006-08-25 12:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only she can answer that question for you. Pick a night when you both have time and aren't expecting any interruptions and talk to her. Ask her the questions you would like to know the answers to. Remember she may not know just what it is she wants at this time.
2006-08-27 10:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u guys r dating u said that she comes and sleeps at ur house for a couple of days and in the same bed well i tink that she is ur girlfriend
2006-08-27 13:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by mc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is she a friend with benefits? It sounds like it. Does she have a job and her own independance? a boyfriend? What is the deal? mmmmm maybe she is staying with u when she has no where to run to...or no one else.... just lay it out there and ask what is up
2006-08-25 02:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She wants to be more than a friend so she is trying to work her way in. She will use reverse psychology on you to make you think she just wants to be friends. If you want to be more, so that you will meet her parents then make it offical. Or maybe she likes to be in control and feels that mothering you is just what you want and she knows your ins and outs.
2006-08-19 14:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kristi in Nevada 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You gotta ask her staight out. I am in an exact relationship with a man. I look at him as a soulmate, but not as a boyfriend.
2006-08-27 12:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by sumadremari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you sleep in the same bed if you are "only friends"?
2006-08-26 11:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by bunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anybody that would come into your home and cook wash your cloths and stat with you has to be a girlfriend or just crazy.
2006-08-27 05:22:52 · answer #11 · answered by carrol kennedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋