i have boobs bigger than your head?

Question

i was born like my mom with boobs bigger than an elephant i have boobs let me tell you and boys stare at me is that a good thing or a bad thing and if its a bad thing what should i do

sincerely big boob

Answer 1

Gurl, you're lucky i'm the most flat chested person on the planet. Tell, them to get a clue you want a guy who loves you not your chest.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Your working out and losing weight like you have, has made your breast seem to grow, and all the working out in the world is not gonna cause them to shrink to a smaller size, you'll need to see a plastic surgeon for that, tell him that he made you self conscious about your breasts now, and see if he backs off some about the comments, at least he noticed the weight loss, even if it was by saying what he said, why don't you let him know anyway, he's gonna notice sooner or later anyway, when your clothes size changes.

Answer 4

I don't know how old you are, but it sounds like you are young. Your question reminds me of my ex-girlfriend. She has ginormous boobs (confirmed DD) by age 12, yet still had a small, petite frame.

She was very pretty and very smart -- almost a bookworm, but by the time I had dated her at age 18, she had gone through her entire teenage years under CONSTANT fire of sexual attention and sexual pressure -- mostly from older/adult men. If she could have, she would have hid her boobs completely, as she had no childhood after age 12.

Rather than hiding her boobs or staying away from guys, she dated older guys -- basically she picked who would scare away other guys from pressuring her.

As a result she was sexualized very young and her life (even today) was/is not what it could have been or what she wanted it to be. (by the way, she and I are the same age, but like I said I was not your typical "cute little guy")

My advice is to HOLD ON TO YOUR CHILDHOOD and don't let a lot of adult attention force you into adulthood. Save what you got for when you are older. You will have your entire adult life to enjoy and exploit big boobs -- you will be much happier waiting until then rather than spending decades resenting your boobs for ruining your adolescence.

I was 6'4" and 220lbs starting at age 13, so I did not do things that typical guys could do, at least without receiving a lot of unwanted attention. It seemed all the "cute guys" were tiny. At times I hated being so big -- I wished and wished I could just blend into the crowd. But as an adult, I think God I am the size that I am. You don't see a lot of adults wishing they were short, and do see a ton of short guys trying to compensate in other ways.

It is just a matter of timing. Some time you will be very glad you have big boobs -- as long as they don't rob you of your childhood in the meantime.

As old fashioned as this may sound, plan on spending your teenage years wearing clothes which allow you to "hide" your features a bit. You will be 1000 times happier if *you* control when and what kind of attention you receive.

P.S. -- you are NOT "nasty" -- that was just jealously speaking, and 99% of men and 98% of women love big boobs.

Answer 5

You aren't your boobs. Boys look because they are boys.

Dont' worry about it. Talk to your mom about it. I'm sure she has lots of advice to give if she has been given super boobs. In fact, get away from the computer and go talk with her right now about it.

Answer 6

I don't really know, cuz I honestly have boobs the size of grapes. oK maybe not quite that small, but real small. My friends all kept daring me to put my real picture on here so I'm doing it for now. This seems like a safe question. and I don't think too many people will be looking at it (small boobs and all) Don't mean to use you as a Safety. but,,,.... Thanks...... Rock on! Oh yeah I failed to mention this GREEN DAY ROCKS. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DyslsBYYjKs

Answer 7

Without playing games, don’t be available 100% of the time or let your life be an open book. A man that comes on too strong or doesn’t have outside interests will scare a woman away just as much as it would if the circumstances were reversed. Read here http://AttractAnyWoman.emuy.info/?7HmF

Women don’t want to feel as though they are completely responsible for your happiness and that is what it feels like when the other person has no outside interests. Men who are overeager or jump when the woman says jump are the ones who are more likely to end up in the friend zone. This doesn’t mean that you should play the game of not calling for a few days; it means that you should set healthy boundaries until you both naturally find a spot for the other in your lives.

Answer 8

Awww...I'm sorry about that. It must be tough to endure the stares of boys like that all the time. But I feel that you're not trying to show off with this question or anything--it's just that you don't know how else to get help with this, right? I noticed some girl said, "nasty," but I don't think you're nasty.

To me, you sound like a young girl trying to get help. How old are you, anyway? Not that I'm trying to be smooth or anything; I just want to assess at what stage you're at in discovering your body and how to handle being stared at--that way I can better assist you with my answer. By the way you said "boys stare at me" instead of "men," I can guess maybe you're in high school, or going into high school--am I right? Anyway, if they're only staring, that fine; boys will be boys and it's in their genes to look for sexy-looking girls, even at a young age. As long as they don't touch you or bother you in any way, I wouldn't worry about it. I know it's hard not to look at girls with breasts that size; Lord knows I've done it too. But I was kind of shy when I was a kid, so when I stared, I tried to do it discreetly, so the girl wouldn't see me looking at her. (Like, I would try to time it when the girl was looking the other way; then I would sneak a quick peek--I just put myself in the girl's shoes and would tell myself that I wouldn't like it if a girl just kept blatantly staring at my crotch area--so I'd try to look when she wasn't looking. Though I think girls do have that sixth sense and can "see" when a guy's staring at them! Because sometimes they'd turn around suddenly and catch me looking at them! So embarrassing!)

So, what I would do if I were you is think positive: Just tell yourself that you will attract a great guy who will love you for who you are rather than what you have under your bra--because those kind of guys don't last for very long. Again, I don't know how old you are, so I don't know how interested you are in boys--but just remember that you have to tell yourself you will attract a good guy who won't just be after your body.

Just e-mail me at [e-mail], and let me know what you think of this advice; if you're interested, I can let you know how to meditate to attract good things into your life. I've been going to meditation class since January and it's completely changed my life. It rilly works!

Ok, ta-ta, sweetie!!!♥♥♥

p.s.: It would help if you didn't call yourself "big boob"--it all starts on how you see yourself! Just a pointer--I know you probably wrote this "Dear Abby" style, but still... =)

Answer 9

Lets just say when u get a boyfriend be careful he isnt going out with you just for your body

Answer 10

Nice!