How long is a lifetime concerning in marriage to be ?

Question

The hard fact remains is lifetime is until death , not 4 years , not 10 years, not 25 years , not 40 years in marriage but people will take the coward & quiter way out from their ordained marriage. Marriage is what it is until death. Divorce is not survicneful. Our society could care less now for values & morals anymore. Where did the conscience went to from people ? Why is people won't be people of integrity anymore ?Well we're now reaping the whirlwind in our society of paying no attention to the commandments of God. Divorce was premited in the bible for unfaithfulness but that does not make anyone free from their marriage because of what God said in Mark 10 : 11-12 & Luke 16 : 18. God showed all of us what marriage should be by Adam & Eve. Adam & Eve was ordained to be husband & wife like many others who God joined together in the first place. Men made second , third marriages by their hardness of their hearts to what God wants. It is not green on the other side of the fence.

Answer 1

Marriage is until death. When you speak those words "Till death do us part" that is exactly what it means. I was brought up to honor the sanctity of marriage. My Fiance and I have been together for a very long time and our marriage is this October. We have both said that Divorce will never be an option no matter what. Divorce means quit, and her and I have been through so much in our lives before we found each other. We never quit, and we never will.

Answer 2

What exactly is the question? Bible is just a book written a long-long time ago. It's true that the rules of society re. marriage and divorce have been relaxed a fair bit, and now you don't have to be stuck in an unhappy relationship just because you're afraid of "what the neighbors might think". Ideally, along with the freedoms would come the responsibilities - but it's easier to be free than to be responsible. Abusive relationships aside, I do agree that people are often not taking responsibility for the choices they make - and it manifests itself not only in marriage, but in other areas as well. Perhaps it's just a part of growing up as a society, and looking for a new basis to build our morals upon; I don't think that in the 21st century you can get away with offering "God's will" or the Bible as an explanation or a basis for anything, the Dark Ages are over.

Answer 3

Um. this is not a question, this is a lecture. Are you wanting the other side of the coin? Many divorces are due to abusive spouses, unfaithfulness, or even just unhappy people, for whatever reason. Granted, there are probably divorces for trivial reasons, and there are people who treat marriage in a trivial way. Not all folks are like that, however. While there is something moving about working through a problem at all costs to life, sanity, and all else, most dont want to put themselves through such torture with a partner who does not please them, satisfy them or is willing to give them what they need. If people thought more about marriage, there would be less divorces. It's not a moral matter, its a matter of responsibility and of what will truly work out to your personal happiness in the long term.

Answer 4

The hard fact is that we as creators give life to everything, may it be a relationship, or a bad habit. once we tire of that brief moment of fulfillment or lack there of, we recite the old eulogy, and put it to death. when ever has fulfilling the lusts of the flesh need integrity to to accomplish what it set out to do. Society is reaping the whirwind of ignorance ,the constantly putting to death of our morals, and values. Eve divorced everything when she chose to put to death the promise, ordained by God, and sealed by a covenant between man, and woman. this was the first death, that is why we have divorce, it's a curse, not cowardice. only those whom break the spell of ignorance can enjoy what God has placed before them.

Answer 5

Again...some people get divorced because they are in an abusive relationship where their very lives are threatened. Are you saying that these people should stay in their marriages because God said so? LOL! What makes me sick are people like you who use God as an excuse for their own inabilities and unwillingness to do anything about their situation. BTW, I call those types of people cowards.

You sound like a religious fanatic and what makes it worse is you EXPECT everyone to see it your way. Don't you think this post belongs in the religion section?

Answer 6

PEOPLE WERE TAUGHT THAT MARRIAGE IS SUPPOSED TO BE FOREVER UNTIL SOME ONE EVENTUALLY DIES ;UNFORTUNATELY, IN THIS WORLD MARRIAGE DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY. IN MY OPINION MARRIAGE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT. SEE I AM CURRENTLY GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE & I PLAYED MY ROLE AND DID ALL THAT I COULD TO KEEP OUR MARRIAGE TOGATHER;HOWEVER WHEN I COULD NOT TAKE HIS **** ANY MORE, I HAD TO DO WHAT I HAD TO DO AT FIRST I FELT BAD WHEN I LEFT , I FELT AS IF I BROKE MY VOWS,THEN I HAD TO REALIZE THAT IT WAS NOT ME IT WAS HIM AND AS LONG AS I KNOW THAT I TRIED THEN GOD KNOW THAT I MEANT WELL.MARRIGE DOES NOT LAST FOR A LIFE TIME BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE DON'T TAKE MARRIGE WELL, I'M NOT SURE IF OYU ARE GOING THROUGH SOMETHING,BUT I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT GOD ODES EVERYTHING FOR A REASON AND WILL NEVER PUT TOO MUCH ON YOU THAT YOU CAN'T HANDLE.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

25 years to life .

Answer 9

My my, aren't we the good Christian? All judgmental and high and mighty. Get off your high-horse and start worrying about living your own life and quit sticking your nose in everybody else's business. It's got nothing to do with you, it's between them and GOD! Who you are NOT!

Answer 10

When it comes to marriage, forever is a very long time, and life is way too short to spend it miserably.