my bestfriend and i, knew each other since the age of 1, and over the time i fell in love with him. what do i do? is it bad if you're in love with your best guy friend that you know since ever? i love him, but what if he dosn't love me? we've kissed before passionatly, but never talked about it. should i give him signs. what are the signs, that he could give me if he likes me in that kind of way? thanks.
2006-08-19 14:12:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
This is a hard question to answer but I will tell you that if you don't know if he is interested in you then you two are not communicating very well. The other thing is that girls mature faster in love then boys do. You didn't give your age but I am assuming you are in your teens.
I would say this, you can hint around and pussy foot on the issue and your feelings but true friendship is trusting and being honest with each other. Usually childhood loves and romances don;t work out but there are some expectations. You will not know either way if you don't ask. Just remember that he may not be a mature as you. But give him time to mature.
Just be honest and communicate with him, break is slowly and little at a time. Let him think about a relationship with your that is closer than your relationship now. Be strong as it may turn out that he is not romantically in love with your but just loves you. I hope you can understand. This is where you need to be strong and love him back but let him go for his happiness.
One secret to love is letting the person you love go find himself and be there when he gets back.
Good luck
2006-08-19 14:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It can be good as long as you make the right moves.
Here is what I suggest. I think you should have a private conversation with him about your feelings. Let him know that the feelings you have for him are far beyond just friendship and that you would like to, if possible, try a relationship with him. NOW, before he answers assure him that even if the relationship doesn't work out then the two of you will still remain best friends, no matter what, and will never let it get awkward.
I'm pretty sure if he's kissed you with passion that he probably feels the same way and is scared to talk to you about it.
Make the first move, go for it girl, and good luck.
2006-08-19 14:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a bad thing that you fell in love with your best friend. You said that you 'kissed passionatly' but you never talked about it with him? How did it happen then, a dare? Spin the bottle? Seven minutes in heaven? If you like him maybe you should talk to him about it instead of giving him signs that you like him. Maybe you should ask him out.
2006-08-19 18:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Accidentally.In.Love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,Hun Its Not Bad...Its Great Cuz You Already Know Him..And Both Of Ya Understand Each Other..Good Luck Hun..
2006-08-19 15:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are such good friends, then sit down and have a talk about it...dont hold anything back. some of the best relationships start out as friends first.
2006-08-20 14:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff L. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong! go for his package and you will find out if he likes you in that kind of way. If he is not interested then it might be a classic case of Will & Grace
2006-08-19 14:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend has always been this girl and finally in middle school i asked her out I have always liked her. So now were going out. Its been 2 years now!!!
2006-08-19 14:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeny it is not bad at all actually it is kind of good you and him have known each other for a long time that is a good thing
2006-08-19 14:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Caitlyn K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should and itz not bad because than u no u have sum1 that is like you and u have known better and longer
2006-08-20 10:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by luv @!nt @lw@yz 3@$y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes stop thinking bout him if not ur relationship with ur bestfriend'll ruin
2006-08-19 14:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋