Should I feel used or turned on?

Question

The state I work for changed medical plans, so I had to chose a new doctor. The closest to me was a female. I've never had a woman doctor but I told myself I would try it out. Women are supposed to be better listeners. Anyway, months later I go in for a checkup. This old lady comes in and I assume she's the doctor. Nah, she's the nurse. Then this hot white woman, maybe 41, comes in. She seems pretty thorough, asking alot of questions. She checks me out completely, starting from the head and works her way down. When she asks me to drop my boxers, I try my hardest not to be turned on. I'm not a pervert, but sometimes things happen...so I'm thinking about basketball, music, anything to distract me. This doctor takes my meat--with no gloves on!--and looks closely at it, taking her time, and I swear that when she let go she stroked it, like from one end to the other. Jesus, has anyone ever had something like that happen? I sort of felt turned on, and sort of felt violated.

Answer 1

I would never claim that a man could not be molested, but only you can determine that. Just be certain of your conviction before you speak publically about it so you don't unjustly ruin the doctor and nurse's careers.

Is it possible you are imagining it? My husband tells me the guys he works with automatically think a woman is interested in them as soon as the woman says hello or smiles at them. Is it possible you were just so turned on by the situation of having two women in the room with you when you were naked?

The bare hand thing does sound a little creepy. At the very least it seems unprofessional. Maybe you should chose a new doctor again.

Good luck.

Answer 2

I work for a doctor and for legal reasons she always has the nurse in the room during any kind of exam like this or for female paps. I just think next time you should request another person in the room for the legal reasons, also I'm suprised she touched you without gloves on.

Answer 3

Depending on how you feel, this varies. But I've never heard of a doctor handling any body parts on anyone male or female without gloves. That is No.1 unsanitary. So, if you feel uneasy about the situation you should report it unless you want her to keep handling "your meat" with no gloves.

Answer 4

i would feel a bit violated if a man touched me like that woman touched you. it is understandable that you could be a bit turned on, i mean it is not unheard of that a man gets revved up about that! obviously, the woman was not following procedure. whenever a doctor touches you in a place like that, or anywhere for that matter, they should always wear gloves or some sort of protection. if i were you, i would probably feel a bit of both.

Answer 5

First of all - not using gloves is a no-no. Second, it doesn't sound very professional to me. See if there is another doctor in your plan.

Answer 6

Violated. No Doctor in his or her right mind should ever do that to a patient. They could risk losing their license.

Answer 7

used

Answer 8

i would say u were used becuase i think its like against the law to do that with out gloves and thats rong

Answer 9

Dont get a hard on over this one. She was just checking your shaft for genital warts. Sorry babe!
RN x 12 years.

Answer 10

Ahh, I would stick with the turned on theory. Best wishes