my ex-boyfriend broke up with me and i was really happy when we were together and i am miserable with out him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
how should i get him to be my boyfriend again should i change my fashion and my styles and how i dress and how i talk cause i am terribley miserable with out him i can't live with out him and i really miss him being my boyfriend but he likes my best friend but she all ready has a boyfriend and all my friends have girlfriends or boyfriends please help signed miserable girl p.s. please give me lots of information on what to do with my fashions and my styles and how i dress and how i talk p.s.s. should i were my glasses only when i need them but next year i am getting contact lenses for my birthday which is december 16 and i will be turning 13 years old oh and should i war jewlery to school everyday and should i wear high heel shoes every day to school should i just put my high heel shoes in my backpack so my parents won't know but they look in my pack
2006-08-19 14:07:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont change da way u r for some one.....if he doesnt think ur not good enuff he aiint good enuff....move on
2006-08-19 14:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 00:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Stuart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-No-No.
You should not have to change who you are to please someone else. If you change who you are, then you aren't being real and then you will end up even more miserable in years to come. You are young and have plenty time to get many more boyfriends. I know it is hard letting go of a good relationship but because he left you, you have to pick up the pieces of your heart and fix them. You are only 13, many love interests will spark along the way that will make you even happier then you were. And remember, things that get bad can only get better. Don't try and change yourself, show your ex you are better off without him. If you change who you are, you are showing him that he got the best of you. So instead, be you and move on. You will find others, as much as the pain does hurt. There are ways to ease the pain like having one of your best friends sleep over or going to the mall, read a good book, or watch a movie.
2006-08-19 14:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Turning 13? Gee whiz girl you're too young to be dealing with this kind of stress. Why should you have to change who you are to accommodate him? If he can't appreciate you as you are then there's nothing you can do to change that. Maybe there's someone he feels is more his type and if that's the case it's over and you need to concentrate on more important things, like school!
2006-08-19 14:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH PLEASE!!!!! 13 years old....You don't have a personality. You are only beginning to live. Wait another 2/3 years. This guy will be after you. Then you can let him know how much he hurt you. Turn around and leave him standing as you walk away with a guy who treats you a lot better(and is a lot cuter).
2006-08-19 14:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't change anything about yourself for a guy. That's not going to get you any where but make you into someone you're not! Be yourself, I know it hurts now but give it time and soon enough you'll find someone else who will love and care for you for who you are, not who they want or could make you into. No one is worth changing who you are, be true to yourself. That's all that is important. Time heals everything, trust me, from my own experience.
2006-08-19 14:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋