she' never wrong and i'm never right. i cart her kids to and from school daily, cook every meal, do homework with the kids, keep them entertained. run out at three in the morning to buy her whatever or to make her food. i feel as if i'm the mother to her two kids and this will be my first child. yet let her eleven year old get cocky and it's not him it's me. when we fight she's always gonna leave the country and i'll "never meet my child". yet when i pack my bag she cries. she complain about back pain, sore legs, swollen feet and i'm always there ready with the cream to massage it better. she owes my mom close to thirteen grand and i took two and a half from a loan shark for her, she can't seem to pay that back yet she can fork out to build a hundred foot wall around her sisters house? now i've never been one to take **** from anyone and i have the scares to proove it. i don't never want to meet my child but i've got to put my foot down somehow! HOW?
2006-08-19 13:59:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Women complain all the time that their men don't sympathize when they're pregnant. In this case you're Mr Too Damn Good. It seems to me you need to call her bluff. I doubt that she really wants you to leave especially if you're helping her with two kids and she's working on number three. And if you truly don't want to be separated from your child, do whatever you have to not to let that happen. Get a lawyer or something. Sounds to me like the kid will be lucky to have you as a daddy. Good luck.
2006-08-19 14:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, for one she is pregnant, and hormones will make you say and feel things that you really don't feel, There is really no way that she can stop you from meeting that baby, but it would mean going to court. She cries because she does not really mean what she says. Wait until after the baby is born and then if it don't get better, then take action from there. I wish you luck, and hope that you can work things out... it is not unheard of for a father to get custody of a child now days as well..
2006-08-19 14:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to shape up or ship out. She cannot LEGALLY keep you from seeing your child, either. She's full of crap if she tells you otherwise. The only way she could take away your rights would be if you were somehow "unfit," and unless you're a crackhead or you beat her and her kids now, then, she has nothing on you. Take her to court NOW. She sounds like a major controling biatch, and you should get rid of her.
2006-08-19 14:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man oh man! Take a deep breath....
Those things that youre able to deal with...write em down...make a list...make a plan for each item. Take one step at a time. Youre in a deep hole that you helped dig. Just have to start plowing through it and hope you come out stronger for it. God bless and good luck.
2006-08-19 14:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's pregnant and take it from me, when a woman is pregnant, you could be coated in chocolate and she'd still find something wrong with it... there is no pleasing us. Just stay strong and she'll be better soon. I'm sure she appreciates all you are doing, but hormones are crazy things.
2006-08-19 14:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a good lawyer and when the child is born make sure you get joint custody or sole custody. She sounds like she has issues and needs to deal with them. Stop bailing her out of trouble and stop giving her money.
2006-08-19 14:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all pregnant women ar bitchy. really----you should let her be a *****. its the pregnancy making her this way. it sounds like you've been doing the best you can. and just try hard to get through it with the best attitude as possible
but the other plan is just to leave her......which would also be a good plan. because it really sounds tough to deal with
2006-08-19 14:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Krissi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a women is pregant its like the world is against her there is nothing you can do accept try and meet her needs you are doing what you can but when your pregnant your moods changeand its just a messed up obstacle until the baby come good luck
2006-08-19 14:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by shyshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hormones way out of ballance
2006-08-19 14:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by bigrigdvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her, she is not worth the headache.
2006-08-19 14:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋