this boy i talk to is very attractive and i like him a lot. We recently started talking but the thing is we haven't called each other for like three days. he usually calls me but he hasn't. The thing is I cant call out on my phone so I cant call him but when I called him on my house phone he didn't answer. I called him three times and he didn't pick up. I think he is at work so i am going to wait one more hour before i call him back. If he dont answer the phone should i continue to call him or just say **** it! And the major thing about that is i only had sex with one other boy and i think I want to make him number 2!
2006-08-19 13:07:58 · 27 answers · asked by shirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your other questions say that 2 weeks ago your boyfriend was in jail? did you break up with him, or are you being a ho?
2006-08-21 07:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason you cannot call out on your phone? Does someone who truly cares about you, discipline you and think it is for your best?
If you are serious.. of which I don't know, please talk to someone who will listen and is mature and help you think of something better to do with your time. Talk to someone who loves you or deeply cares about you.
Start over...and keep yourself a treasure. Spend time doing good for others, things that will truly bring you happiness in the long run.
Even if you are lonely or bored, run fast from these ideas as good as they may seem to you now. Change your direction.
Stay true to yourself, take true good care of yourself,
and go in a positive direction.
The things you are doing now are eating up valuable time, your heart, your emotions, you physical and spiritual well-being. Invest in yourself wisely. Don't short change yourself.
At this time, you probably don't realize the price you are paying...
it is so great....more than you can imagine.
Start right now and go forward to taking the best care of your life and doing the things you were created for. If you don't know yet, pray to God or pray with someone who understands how to do this.
Again talk to someone who can direct you to an uplifting and positive route. Someone you can be accountable to and will support good moves for you. You won't be sorry for it.
I care.
2006-08-19 20:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, give it a rest and if he wants to call back he will. Once without realizing it I called a guy 26 times in one day because I liked him sooo much! And then I realized how psycho that looked. And about the sex thing... wait for a relationship you will be much happier when you have a steady, strong, healthy relationship! (AKA atleast 3 months of dating, and persistant phone calls)
2006-08-19 20:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by tustudent 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you want to wait another HOUR after you have already called him 3 times in one day?
You do realize you look like a desperate stalker. Maybe you need to wait another DAY or TWO before you call him again. He may have been interested, but if you call every hour, he is going to think you are very needy and he will lose interest.
RELAX.
2006-08-19 20:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to put him off then carry on like you are you'll end up stalking him and look like you're psychotic.
Relax a bit, realise he has a life off the phone & try to get one of your own.
Have a relationship with him for at least 6 months before you have sex with him or you will just look like and get a reputation as a hoe
2006-08-19 20:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't want to seem desperate. Wait a day or two before you call him again. The longer you wait, the better. Like the other person said, let him come to you.
2006-08-19 20:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Debi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So he is not calling u huh? don't call him anymore if he likes u he will contact u. Seems to be he is not sure what he wants, sorry I would have to say move on. U'll find someone else who is just as attracted and interested in u as u are with him.
2006-08-19 20:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a male and if he hasn't called you in days then he must not be too interested and dont call him you'll make yourself seem too available and that will send the message to him like you really need him.
2006-08-19 20:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by Inferno 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Before you think about making him #:2 at least wait and see what the out come is. But if you think about it nothing is that important that he can't call you, unless it's DEATH. If your important to him he'll call. but don't overpower his decision by calling him to much. You want him to want to call you.
2006-08-19 20:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by BABYWHITE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you should cool your heels and see what happens. It could be that he really is busy and cannot call you. If you can't wait the week then move on, but if hes worth it, perhaps you could wait for him a bit longer?
2006-08-19 20:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Baby girl let it go....You've called to much already...there are so many others out there..Trust...but if he likes you too, just give it some time and he'll make it known
2006-08-19 20:13:48 · answer #11 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋