Do you think it is ok to have your love interest to have friends of the opposite sex? Like, you are dating a boy and he has female friends, (if you two are in a straight relationship). Same question for gays and lesbians, except having friends of the same gender.
2006-08-19 12:25:59 · 12 answers · asked by Sapphire 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unless there is reason for you not to trust him with female friends. There is nothing wrong with it. Don't get excited until there is a cause for it. I do not attract female friends easily because they are the jealous, 'i feel threatened' type, and can't comprehend opposite sex, friendships with out intercourse. Whatever you do, don't be one of those women and you won't have to worry about your man.They need some degree of freedom and chance to prove trust to you just like we want and need them to trust us for all the same reasons.
2006-08-19 12:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by MrsPTB4Life 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are living in Saudi Arabia, it is highly unlikely that your love interest will have only same-gender friends.
And unless you are living on a deserted island, or in a cave somewhere with JUST your love interest, I don't see how a gay person could NOT have friends of the same gender.
So, yeah - it's ok :)
2006-08-19 12:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by AmericanDreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married and your husband/wife wants to be friends with someone of the opposite sex - That's a big no no . That's how affairs are started. My husband is not allowed to have friends of the opposite sex and either am I . We are fine with this.
2006-08-19 12:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should have too much say over your love interest's friends. That would be too controlling and most people won't tolerate that in a relationship.
I think it is completely possible to have friends of both genders regardless of your sexual orientation.
2006-08-19 12:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by thinkofasong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one million. You: Megan Fox (she would not agree....) 2. Love interest: Johnny Depp ( he would not agree both...) 3. staggering pal: Jack Nicholson ( this kindness and innocence in his eyes!! He might want to agree!!) 4. confirm: mom : Sean Penn Father : Meryl Streep ( Sean denies, Meryl concurs)
2016-11-05 04:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by hartzell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the relationship wouldn't be much of a relationship without trust. So yes, I think it is okay.
2006-08-19 12:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. trust is a cornerstone of any relationship. infact i believe that you MUST have many friends who may not necessarily know both of you equally well
2006-08-19 12:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Yucifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok for me to have t hem, but I hate that my boyfriend has them too.
2006-08-19 12:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it not safe becase what happin if thay have filling for them
2006-08-19 12:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with it unless they flirt with them
2006-08-19 12:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by Pointe Your Toes! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋