shell i live with her or not few times before she wanted divores.
but i can't live with out her she's everything for me.
she's my first love. without her my life is nothing.
2006-08-19 11:57:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The old saying you can't make someone love you is very true. You will have to realize that and move on. Easier said than done, but to keep your sanity you will have to unless she tries to make the marriage work. One person can't make a marriage. Believe me you can and will make it without her. It takes a lot of will power but time does help. Good Luck
Been there
2006-08-19 13:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can never make someone do something that they don't want to. It never ends well.
If she's not with the loving you anymore then i'd say move on.
Go to the gym or to the dancefloor.
Women tend to deal with these things sometimes better then men do.
I'm sorry about whats going on but i can't pass a full judgement cause i don't know the whole story.
If she wants a divorce theres prolly more that we dont know.
But don't be big crazy guy or anything.
It takes two. If she doesnt wanna be with you then you can't make her.
2006-08-19 19:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by warm_champaign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her tickets to a show called "A Weekend to Remember".
It's sponsored by Family Life. Great show! Tim Downs and Dennis Rainey really know how to make a marriage work.
Comes with a date night. No kids allowed! Just the two of you away for the whole weekend.
Go to this website; www.familylife.com click on marriage conference, go to dates, and find one near your area.
Nationwide marriage ministry. It's not boring, no one on one, no shrinks, no bologna, just an auditorium full of people just like YOU.
2006-08-19 19:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your feelings. I once thought my own wife didn't love me, too. I've learned that the best love is love given freely, that is without force, without threats, without guilt and above all, without commitment. Love forced by commitment is a love that is logical as in "I love my husband BECAUSE we're married," and "I love my wife BECAUSE she loves me."
Communicate with your wife and learn her feelings, learn her reasons. Acknowledge her feelings and reasons and grow to understand them. Love her with all your heart and go right on living even if she does leave. Love needn't be possessive of the Beloved.
Remember, too, the most important person in YOUR life to Love is Yourself. Keep on Living and Loving.
2006-08-19 19:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what's the reason behind the divorce. Also find out what you can do at this point to change the situation.
Is it something that you're not doing to make her happy? Listen to her needs.
2006-08-19 19:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by locamiami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her that you love her. Bring her flowers and let her know everyday how she makes your everyday worth living. Ask what more you can do to make her happy. Go to parks and other places together. Pray together and eat together. Good luck.
2006-08-19 19:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Helper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the radio 97.1 FM. on Sunday nights, there is this show called hope line. and U can call them (they'll tell u the number) and they'll help!
2006-08-19 19:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by MoOnliGhtSeductress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry pal, but you're screwed up. There's nothing you can do about it. It all depends on her.
2006-08-19 19:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get counceling, you will be better off without her,
2006-08-23 16:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋