2006-08-19 11:48:57 · 20 answers · asked by Shannon T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Calling names in any circumstance is wrong. They are said to hurt.
And it is still wrong even if you called names first.
Two wrongs do not make a right.
Sit your husband down at a time that yall are not fighting and explain to him that in him calling you these names that it is very hurtful to you.
But most people can not control what they say in anger.
People do not realize that emotional and mental abuse is just as wrong as physical.
If it continues and happens often then he may need some anger management classes.
2006-08-19 12:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! AT ALL TIMES!!! Just remember not to call him anything back 'cause it keeps the argument going on longer and words hurt and you can't always take them back. Next time he calls you an animal, just walk away and think to yourself that when he says that to you, that you're a peaceful, graceful, animal, such as a horse, dolphin, or something of that sort, rather than a "beast" that he says you are. It'll help you to calm down. I've helped couples with this problem before and for some, it's seemed to help.
2006-08-19 11:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are bearing fangs , claws and foaming as many women do then it is O.K. If you are behaving in a reasonable ( even if heated) manner and trying to resolve issues rather than cause further harm, the ref should have called a foul. But as much of a surprise as it might be , people are sometimes deliberately hurtful in the heat of battle.
2006-08-19 12:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by foxyraley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wrong=yes
normal=yes
its common to say the wrong things right in the middle of your attention span.
the next time your husband calls you a name, walk out and go for a long drive without using words.
men react to action and tend to laugh(make light of words) at words.
2006-08-19 11:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did say "heated arguments". People sometimes say things they really don't mean when they are angry. What did you say?
Best to forgive him and try to avoid those heated arguments.
2006-08-19 12:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. if a person feels that their point of view in an argument is weak, untrue, stupid, etc. they will resort to name calling, insults, changing subjects and violence in order to get a reaction that maked the other person loose the point of the argument. i was called a son-of-a-b**ch in an arguement. i replyed "I dodn't know you knew my mother. because she could be a b**ch at times". the insult failed. and the argument fell apart.
2006-08-19 12:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 11:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he calls you an animal, growl an scratch is eyes out. He wont do it again.
2006-08-19 12:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if you are or not. Next time you argue pay more attention to your words and body language. He just may be telling the truth!!
2006-08-19 12:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not sure that this is wrong? is animal or beast your first name? its not OK for anyone to call you out of your name even if they are angry or upset. its abuse.
2006-08-19 12:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by G. kravitz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋