I have been with my husband for over 6 years. Two years ago we got married. A few months ago i found out he had been lying to me for over half a year and slept with another woman. I packed my bags and left him. For two months he was begging me to come back. Then all of a sudden he changed his mind and told me we better could get a divorce (which i wanted anyway). I now found out that at the moment he suddenly changed his mind he was dating again already and now has a new gf for several weeks already! We havent even filed for divorce yet! I think its really assholish of him and very disrespectful towards me. What do u think?
2006-08-19 11:47:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think its time for you to cut your losses and move on. dont give him the benefit of knowing how much control he has over your feelings, the best revenge is moving on and being happy!! let him go ...open yourself to someone who will love and respect you.
2006-08-19 11:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by sylonthego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce.
2006-08-23 11:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Noadonis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look on the bright side of things, Your rid of him and he is her problem now and of course he will do the same thing to her he did to you. She may think she has what it takes to make him happy and she may think she's the better woman but in the end she will ripe what she sows just as he will. Now get out there girl you've been given a second chance!!!
2006-08-19 12:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this, find out why you got in a relationship with him to start with...
He is how he is, not because of you, but because that is who he is. You just did not want to notice before.
Get a divorce and be more cautious next time.
2006-08-19 12:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by schnikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm glad that you're not taking this off of him and you're wanting to get a divorce. As for him, he's a disrespectful, asshole, just another man taking up space and oxygen, in our society. It seems to me like he don't want to committ, nor does he like to committ. I think a divorce may be best in this situation.
2006-08-19 12:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. You have already said that you want a divorce, SO why do you care. He has decided that it is what he wants also and has already moved on. It is time you moved on also. Get the divorce and get yourself a life. You deserve it.
2006-08-19 11:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup! you've been well adviced by friendlies here.
Men of this character are not worth a cent, if its cancerous you have to remove it the sooner the better.
Life is short, start a new life while you're still young.
DO NOT LET YOUR LIFE
BE A DWINDLING CANDLE
LET IT BE A SPLENDID TOURCH
U-RATION
2006-08-21 04:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by davmanx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all disrespectful; you have moved out, and he has moved on. This is how it should be.
Perhaps you will get the last laugh by seeing him cheat on his new g/f (it WILL happen).
2006-08-19 11:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he lost a really great lady!
I also think he is a *** hole
and I wouldn't have moved back in with him either!
but yea thats what i think
2006-08-19 11:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by gingerg50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to serve him the papers and go out to have some fun.
2006-08-19 12:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋