Does a man love you when he says wear lingerie or F you???

Question

and "if I didnt love you I could have kicked you out long ago"

is this romance or forplay? do these statements make a woman feel loved and sexual?
thank you all. ill show him your answers later on tongith:)

Answer 1

I agree with Dorrie. This man is a control freak. It won't be too long before he becomes an abuser. Get out while you can.

You should not be cursed at, yelled at, told what to wear or how to act.

From someone who has been there, please, leave before he takes it to the next level and hurts you.

Answer 2

Something I have learned in my 61 years of life is that insecure men quite often have control issues. By insecure, I do not necessarily mean sexual prowess, although at times this may also be an issue. What I do mean is that at their core-belief levels, they all too often do not like themselves or are afraid to like themselves, so they tend to involve themselves in king-of-the-hill type power games during relationships. These men are often drawn to strong (and attractive) women, but then spend an inordinate amount of time taking potshots at the very strengths which attracted them. There is an excellent book that is used for a group called, "Relationships Anonymous", (for those involved in abusive relationships): "Men Who Hate Women, and The Women Who Love Them". The confusion for these men usually goes all the way back to their childhood relationship with their mom (or mom figures), and communication is one way to deal with this if you want to bring such a person into your life. If this young man wants you to wear lingerie, he is attempting to subjugate you and identify you as a sexual object as a way of manipulating or controlling you in a context with which he is comfortable (i.e., sexual). I liken this type of behavior as "putting tight shoes on" the relationship--you will not be able to fully express yourself as a person if you allow this type of control. Love yourself and believe in yourself enough to establish boundaries in this relationship, if you feel he is worth the effort. Above all, sit down and evaluate what it is you want for yourself in the long run, and then be honest with anyone who is attempting to have prominence in your life long-term. Lingerie can be fun, but it should be on your terms and when YOU feel like wearing it; he should get to know all other aspects of your personality if the relationship is to be long-term satisfying for you. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

I dunno how it would make a woman feel. But my guess is this: if he loves you, you'll feel it and he won't have to tell you.

Unless the two of you are playing some sort of tease-game about who can make the other feel left out and insecure, I'd tell him to "show you".

Let's see if you get passion or romance or just laid. They can all be fun, but only some of them have anything to do with love.

good luck

Answer 4

I say not really. Maybe he really wants to wear the lingerie... I man should love you for you who, no matter what you wear or choose not to wear, and that thing about kicking you out is just dumb.

Answer 5

No. He does not love you and if you are with someone like this, please leave them immediately. Some women probably do get into being spoken to like this. Ask your boyfriend or husband if this is what he is trying to do: turn you on by making you feel hurt and/or abused.

Answer 6

denims are not sex particular, as are dressed for females and except for kilts for adult men, so are skirts. dresses and skirts are deemed for females, the function of panties and undies is lady, they lack the outlet for adult men in the front and adult men only don't have a use for bras. Now as to that equality deal. Up till the Nineteen Sixties denims denims, in reality any pants for females were used only for events, like snowboarding. and by no ability allowed no count number how chilly it became for faculty. it truly is not equality, it truly is brutal in case you had to stroll to varsity in wintry climate as I did. genuinely that sex particular habit is cultural, and as such is only a repressive for adult men because it truly is for females. Breech it at your own danger. Oh and that tomboy element...yeah, they particularly are frowned on after a particular age. gay adult men are not all flow-dressing via any ability. And there are some instantly adult men who like dressing up as females. flow-dressing appears its personal type.

Answer 7

Tell him good bye. No man who respects and loves any woman will treat her or talk to her in that manner.

Answer 8

First of all.....It's neither romance or foreplay. It's just rude. Unless of course he is doing it in a joking manner. But if you have to ask, then it's probably rude.

Answer 9

Dump him. Tell him to get familiar with his hand, cause that's all he'll get.

Answer 10

hell naw he dont love u he want a hoe