He has come back in2 my life. Im not 'in love' with him anymore but do 'love' him but I also know that he's not the most trustworthy & reliable person. Should I accept his proposal?
2006-08-19 11:04:46 · 20 answers · asked by wotagem 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just 2 let u know that he never cheated!
2006-08-19 11:16:08 · update #1
I was momentarily happy when he asked though.
2006-08-19 11:25:55 · update #2
He claims 2 love me & that there has been no other since me. With saying such things there is potential of me fallin again but I dont want 2 hurt myself again it was 2 painful the 1st time 2 get over him. However, I dont know if he is making me false promises.
2006-08-19 12:17:25 · update #3
i think you should....really....u say u love him, though you're not in love with him.....now, i think that's a mature kind of love....like you're not losing your head cause he's always on your mind, like teenagers do, but you love him and you want the best for him....he's also your first love....it says that someone can only truly love once....maybe this is your chance....do as your heart says, be honest with yourself, so you won't regret your final decision.... good luck ;)
2006-08-19 11:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by hoodchica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of the "love" and "in-love" rethoric (is "in-love" a higher stage of "love" or something?) - why would you even consider a relationship with a person who is not trustworthy? Trust is one of the most important things in a marriage. This would be a hell of a thing to compromise on.
2006-08-19 11:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, obviously you do not trust him. A relationship without trust is definitely not a good relationship. Besides, you aren't in love with him, what's the point of spending your life with someone you don't love the way you're supposed to. Keep him as a friend if you want, although I do not recomend it... but definitely do not marry him. Good luck!
2006-08-19 11:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not if you aren't truly in love with him and he isn't reliable and trustworthy. You need all those things in a prospective spouse.
2006-08-19 11:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! And it sounds like that is what you already knew in your heart. You don't need confirmation to do what you know is right. If you want to be another divorce statistic, go for it.
2006-08-19 11:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually no cuz dont go with any1 that u DONT like / really love....its not good becuz ur gunna be sad after doing it....wait for a couple more moments until ur ready
2006-08-19 11:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kezia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends in many things!!! if you think you wont be able to find another better guy do it!!! but if you are still young and you think you will find someone that you will really love and you wont have doubts about getting married to him do not do it !!!!
2006-08-19 11:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading your entire posting I would advise you NO do not marry him, based on this information you gave.
2006-08-19 11:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt marry any one u dont love bc that would just be stupid you would be miserable and would be faking the felings torwards him. he deserves someone who actually is in love with him.
2006-08-19 11:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by jennifertrinitysky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only marry him if you are in love.
2006-08-19 11:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋