What is the difference between butch and femme?

Question

I hear that when you are a butch you don't receive oral pleasures you just give it? If that is true...How do butch females get pleasure sexually? I am asking because I have a friend who says she is butch and I am curious but don't wanna ask her personally.

Answer 1

Butch is a man looking woman and a femme is the girly girl. And they dont do want any sexual pleasure they just wanna **** the fem. Best Answer

Answer 2

Essentially, the only difference would be that she's butcher and not femme. I've met a good number of butch lesbians who were butch, but had femme personalities. I've also met femme lesbians who acted butch. So it's pretty much hit and miss with differences as far as the women themselves go.

Answer 3

Usually a butch is someone who takes on a more dominant role or who may not be overtly feminine in dress or mannerism. Like anything else this can be anything from just not wearing a dress or skirt, to female to male crossdressing. A femme is someone who takes a bit more submissive or passive role, and who may dress overtly feminine or even extreme, like sluttish.

These are stereotypical definitions and obviously like in the heterosexual world, not written in stone. Many straight men are somewhat passive, and many heterosexual women dress and act very butch.