Q for the guys and ladies answers are welcome?

Question

Do you ever feel or think about when making out with a girl (especially not one you have dated for a long time..or one night stand) what has been in her mouth? aka, another mans body fluids...another mans member...isnt that nasty to you? or you just get over it? same thing about if you sleep with her...you ever wonder the guys that have been in there and left a mess...how thats just ..nasty? i wonder cause when i see paris hilton i think shes hot..but id never kiss her cause who knows what(and how many) have been in her mouth. female opinion and thoughts are welcome

im not saying girls dont wonder it about guys...im only wondering this side cause i dont worry about the girl worrying, cause im a virgin..so i dont have a history of nastyness. heres my analogy comparing women to men on this...when a dirty car goes into a garage...you can pull the car out and wash it...but the garage is harder to clean and you dont want to put another clean car into the dirty garage...their just different things...cause the vagina is inside it just makes it like...the garage

Answer 1

i feel for you man. but this kinda thing you gotta get over. its only natural for people to have more than one relationship. dont think of her as a slut though

Answer 2

I'll answer your question with a few questions. How many adult virgins do you know? I am sure that if you know any, they are in the minority. Ex's are a reality. I'm sure she washed everything off before you got there. You just have to get over it. If we all waited for a pristine woman that had never even kissed another guy, you'd probably be a virgin yourself. What if she held you to the same standard? How would you do?

Have you ever kissed your mother and wondered the same thing? If you can get past that thought, you can get past kissing a new girl. Now go out there, get your freak and stop worrying about stuff that will make you crazy.

Answer 3

My opinion is that you are very very young and should maybe get into basket ball or football or even the swim team and not concern yourself with any of that stuff for a few more years. If you are going to mess around with a girl I would hope that you find one that isnt a tramp or at least one that practices good hygiene and makes sure the guy uses a condom and doesnt leave a mess as you put it. Stick to sports tho for awile longer until you are ready to understand about all that stuff.

Answer 4

In the case of Paris hilton, she pretty much uses semen for mouthwash so I can see how you'd be disgusted by that.

For most girls though, as long as it wasn't earlier today when that happened.....F it. Let's get it on!

unless she is a total and complete whore.

Answer 5

I dont think about that if Im just making out or having sex, but if its a long term relationship, then I would want to know who has been there.

Answer 6

f/m answ- that question can really go both ways, but come on unless your a virg. and its your 1st kiss your most likely going to have to deal with that thought! The thing is to look for someone that is atleast a well hygiened person!

Answer 7

I have thought about that. You can't obsess over it though. The girl is probably thinking the same thing about your mouth.

Answer 8

just think oppisit like y would a grl want to give a guy a bj when the thing has been in some one else how disgusting!!!

Answer 9

nope, it doesn't really bother me. actually me and a friend both did his girlfriend at the same time and after he ejaculated inside of her, I went right in after him and did the same thing. it didn't really bother me to think that I was getting his sperm on me or that our juices were co-mingling inside of her. It was actually pretty exciting.

Answer 10

i certainly would think it with paris hilton, but, then, i have no desire to do anything with her, except accept large donations of unmarked bills. with other women, i think about it, sometimes, but i don't kiss skanks, and, mostly, i just don't worry about it.