there is this guy and he is a sophmore, i am a freshman... he is a family friend and goes tyo my school, ive known him for about 2 yrs. i reallly like him... he doesnt know that i do, the more i talk to him the morfe i like him.. i cant go through life with out atleast trying to go out with him. there is just one thing, he has a PERFECT girlfriend. they are great together. i reall y want to go out with him and everything but i dont think they will ever brake up... she is a senior. what should i do, will i ever get a chance with him.. help!
i dont know if he likes me but i think he does a lil bit. it seems like it, but i can never tell cuz that is his personlality.
2006-08-19 10:26:40 · 8 answers · asked by snickelfritz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him!! his girls gonna dump him once shes outa school anyway
2006-08-19 10:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to have a crush on someone you can't have, people do it all the time.
Do a reality check (and a spell check, btw), he's older, he's got a girlfriend he's happy with, and frankly right now you don't have anything to offer. So back off, get involved in a ton of other things and do what you can to distance yourself.
Then, next year, when she's gone on to college and he's in high school, he will look a WHOLE lot younger to her. There is a very good chance she will break up with him and then you have a chance. Be aware though, he's older than you and will do the very same thing.
2006-08-19 10:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart sometimes we have to love from afar and there is nothing that we can do. You said yourself that he has a girlfriend that is perfect for him so why would you want to be the reason for him to get hurt? I know that you probably have very strong feelings for him but acting on those feelings would be wrong. Allow his relationship to run its own course. Be a friend to him and try to find someone that you can be happy with. Maybe one day you and he will find your way to each other but it will never work out if you try to force it. And who knows their relationship might only look perfect to you and for them it might not be. Just because they look good together doesnt mean it is forever. So just take things easy and look for someone to make you happy. Good Luck and I know that this is probably not the answer that you are looking for.
2006-08-19 10:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by lvb524 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend then you have to accept that you don't have a chance and you would not want to have it either because if you could get him that way you could never be sure whether he would just leave you for another. Plus I would try to talk to him about it, then he'll probably let you know that he doesn't have the same feelings for you. Then it will hurt but you'll be able to get over him.
2006-08-19 10:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i think you should tell the guy. you should at least give it a shot.. and if he says i have a girlfriend... well just say i know you do but i just want to know if you like me just a little bit. from there you'll know if you at least have a little chance with him.trust me if shes a senior and hes a sophmore its not gonna last that long.
2006-08-19 10:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation. But he knos i like him. i dont think i will ever get a chance w/ him. but if you really like him tell him. i told the guy i like that i do and now wen he comes over he hangs out w/ me. and sits by me. so tell him.
2006-08-19 10:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and move on . maybe the future will change things but for now , enjoy your life ,your young and will meet so many other people out there . stop dwelling on one guy . your to young for that
2006-08-19 10:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one tell him how you feel......two he knows deep down that she will break up with him...three ask him if he likes you....talk about it...you may be in luck....everyday that you wait he may just slip away more and more I know you really don't want to hear this but you know it's true so go tell him
2006-08-19 10:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋