for men only: how should a woman act in bed with you?

Question

do you like shy, or agressive?

Answer 1

A woman!

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!

Get out!!!!!

Answer 2

don't get me wrong I don't mind shy women they are okay and I don't mind agressive women. they both have there points. but heres the problem with both

shy women won't stand up for themselve and expect you to fight there battle. I don't mind defending a girl but she better help me. I like girls that have a mind of there own and shy girls just cling to you. which I don't know if I like clinginess.

as for agressive women. they have a mind of there own but they controling and thats bad.

if you can keep from falling into those to pit falls you would be fine.

as for in bed. every guy is diffent so you'll learn as you go.

Answer 3

I like a partner ... neither submissive nor dominant but someone whose body becomes mine and to whom I can be completely hers.

It's a oneness without comparison, where each is to the other what we had always dreamed about each other. Of course there is shyness ... each of us has to learn about trusting another person completely.

It is really beyond words. It is when man and woman become one. Sometimes shy, sometimes aggressive each to the other in turn ... but always loving.

It is also much, much more than sex ... than the purely physical ... It has to do with souls and personalities and the gentleness that is the acceptance of someone who is a whole being prepared to relinquish that wholeness to be part of something much more than just two people in love ... in fact to share together a place in the pattern of the universe.

That is the 'acting in bed' that I desire ... and the way that we should be together always.

And, yes, I do have a particular person in mind ... sadly, 9000 miles separate us.

Answer 4

Interesting question. I like a little shy, and a little aggressive. Shy enough to seem innocent but ready and waiting, and aggresssive enough to do some work in bed too, especially if she willingly guides you to her pleasure spots. If she's too shy she may just lay there. If she's too agressive it might feel more like a tough wrestling match than intense intimacy.

Answer 5

Give me a girl who is neither agressive nor shy, rather one who is somewhere right in the middle. Someone to work with is what I like, not for or against (kinda like teamwork, ya' know, give and take).

Answer 6

You said 'a woman'
So as you haven't specified your relation with that woman, how can I answer.
May be its your mom in your bed or your lil sis?
But lets assume you are asking about a gf or wife....
hmm
I think a bit shy but willing to do 'business' this will definitely turn me ON

Answer 7

Aggressive

Answer 8

Overall I let the moment happen, I ususally set the tone. But overall if you know your partner well enough. Then you know your limits. I like subtle or otherwise obscure spontaneity anything can happen so I like both to answer the question.

Answer 9

I don't like shy women, Why? Because i like a woman that feels confident with herself, that means that she can feel really comfortable naked and doing love. It may be an aggressive woman or a gentle woman, but not shy.

Answer 10

I think perhaps a mixture of both; shyness is attractive and appealing, aggressive or assertive does wonders for the male ego.

Answer 11

Sometimes aggressive, and open about whats good. Anything goes. Shy and demure are not good when its time to get busy!