here's the prob,she's married to a wonderful man but she's feel in love w/her husband's son,what should she do? He's 23y/o & she's 45?He live's in upper Indiana & she live's in the southern part of Indiana...
2006-08-19 09:50:58 · 24 answers · asked by Wonetta B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think she's just infatuated with him, it seems temporary but the principal of it is...maybe her and her husband need some marriage counseling because she should Not feel that way about another guy (especially his son)
2006-08-19 09:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sick. Just sick, but unfortunately these things do happen, is her husband's son in love with her as well?
How does she manage to keep her attraction a secret is what I'm wondering.
She should get a divorce and move as far away as possible from Indiana and not ruin her husband's relationship with his son.
2006-08-19 17:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by piteous_wight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should get over it.... That could tear the whole family apart. If the son is in love with her too they need to decide together if they want to break the father/husband's heart like that.
I kind of think it's gross
2006-08-19 16:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by beck o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it! Bad Bad Bad! Tell her to forget it and don't even go there! Hopefully she hasn't crossed that line already. I mean what kind of woman would want to come between a father and a son? Bad, Bad Bad.........If she loves either of them.....she will forget it!!! If she has already crossed that line she should talk to her son-in-law and tell him to put time and distance between the two of them to cool things off.
Besides what kind of life can this boy give her? She is old enough to be his mother!!! Sooner or later he will want to move on to be with a young woman who can give him a full life with children.
This is selfish of your friend to even consider this!!!!!
2006-08-19 16:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Dominika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer.
2006-08-19 16:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by lilybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should truly forget about him, does she have any idea how that may affect a father and son relationship? Help her get professional help, I would do that but I would need to speak with her personally. Best of Luck! ~V.J.~
2006-08-19 16:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unless she wants to break up an entire family she either needs to get over it PERMANENTLY or get out permanently and divorce the wonderful man and leave the state permanently. I don't recommend divorce but she's headed there in a hurry and that's STUPID!!!!!!!!
2006-08-19 16:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG....uh-oh....Well I say you let her work this one out. Its mean to say but really. It's her marrige. You can help her out and support her in her dicision. But also you can more strongly encourage her to stay with her husband. Tell her the great things about him and tell her a few bad things about his son....Sry that you have to go thru that...Being in the middle kinda...Well good luck!
2006-08-19 16:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does not need to go with his son cause for one thing hes to young for her for another her husband might go crazy if he finds out that shes crushin on his son and for one thing if she loved his son more then him he shouldn't have married him
2006-08-19 16:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by abeni l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she shoul go to counseling or a marraige counselor (not like she's a psycho n needs a shirnk but just someone who knows what thery're doin and can really help u know).
2006-08-19 16:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by Diverse Insanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋