I am married to a great man, have a good career, have a home, and am financially secure.. The problem I havent had a baby yet..I got preg in March but miscarried in April...I have 5 nieces and 2 nephews ages 16-24 (Im 29) and of those 3 of them have kids (one has 3 and doesnt even care for them) and two are pregnant now...I love them and their kids and am so excited for the new ones to arrive, but part of me is jealous..Is that normal? I am a good person and feeling jealous isnt something I like..I know I will have a kid someday (God willing), but it bugs me that these kids who dont have their lifes together (no HS education, job, or man) are blessed and dont even care....
2006-08-19 09:23:18 · 9 answers · asked by misstikal311 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Thank you ladies so much your encouragement means alot to me.. I wish all of you trying to conceive the best of luck, and God Bless you all!
2006-08-19 23:59:20 · update #1
It's VERY normal to feel that way. I'd guess that most women would feel exactly the same if they were in your shoes. (I've felt this way too!).
The best thing you can do is to find a support group where you can vent freely about your feelings and be among women in exactly the same situation.
www.Resolve.org has a ton of groups across the US that hold weekly and monthly meetings. Or you can try online support boards like http://wish2conceive.com or http://sharedjourney.com
Good luck to you!
2006-08-19 09:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by randi m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be jelous to. I have always wondered why people like u are secure and want to give a baby a loving home but it doesn't happen and people that don't want kids and that aren't even trying get pregnant, On top of that 13 year olds are having abortions. I tdont think it is wrong to be jelous cause i am too. I have been trying a yeal and a half and nothing. Some people will say god will let it happen if so then why do people that are poor 13 and abusive and don''t want kids get pregnant it is beyond my inagation. So it is alright to fill jelous . Cause everybody else does even if they don't say it out loud
2006-08-19 09:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by helpif i can 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It took me almost 10 years to get pregnant and have a healthy child and I had three miscarraiges. I felt the same way you did when people were having children. I am not a jealous person normally but I guess because I wanted a child so bad that emotions took over. My sister in law who is 6 years younger had 3 children before me and it was really hard. I would say what you feeling is quite natural. I do hope that one day you will have a bundle of joy of your own.
2006-08-19 09:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by JAngel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're literally not incorrect in any respect(identity be jealous and indignant), it quite is basically noted as note of to be on the phone with you and basically you no longer texting everybody else. i imagine you ought to re-evaluate about the comprehensive project, ask your self when you're fairly no longer afflicted in any respect that he nevertheless talks to his ex. From journey I easily have realized that there is like a a million% probability you would possibly want to be pals along with your ex, i comprehend i could not( noticeably in case you've been in love.) you ought to search for suggestion from with him, ask him how might want to he sense in case you've been texting an ex boyfriend of yours. you've each precise to talk your concepts.
2016-11-26 02:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by hinnant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right, i know exactly how you feel, we have been trying almost 3 yrs now and no luck. I am starting clomid this week, hope it gets us there! Good luck to you!
2006-08-19 14:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by miscoda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES!!! Its normal.I was SO Jealous when I heard of someone being pregant! I would cry! I tryed for 5 years before I had my son....It hurts when you try to get pregnant and your body works against you... It will happen for you.It will take time.If you stress it hurts your body to..
2006-08-19 10:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sandie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong to feel that way. trust me I totally feel for you, while I have one I am really yearning for another and everyone around me keeps popping up pregnant, its driving me mad. Have you talked to your OB about your trying to concieve journey, how long have you been trying, is fertility meds out of the question?
2006-08-19 09:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jonita S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. i have one child and want more and here we have 10 and 11 year old children asking which birth control will keep me from getting pregnant since i need sex soo bad. where are their parents and why are they letting this happen
2006-08-19 09:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know excatly excatly how you feel i was just crying about it less then an hour ago...lol.....it'll get better....i hope
2006-08-19 14:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋