My boyfriend and I currently had sex and I didnt orgasm. I didnt want to make him feel bad so i just faked it. I am not 16. This is a old name and i just never changed it.
2006-08-19 09:07:52 · 23 answers · asked by cassie_sweet_16 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Come to visit me and I can cure that little problem or just let him know he's terrible in bed and needs to fix it because he is being selfish and only thinking of himself.
2006-08-19 09:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by metal maniac 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dealing with something like that can be hard. I think that you should discuss this and maybe its a lack of confidence or maybe he's not pleasing you. If you tell him what to do maybe it will help. Usually the one thing that prevents a lot of people from reaching climax is a mental barrier, just try to break through it. If you and your partner have good communication and use foreplay you should be able to climax. Also, try not thinking about anything while your having sex, just enjoy it and leave the thinking for later.
2006-08-19 16:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by ChAr-LeE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, don't feel bad...there will probably be many other times where you'll fake it. Sounds like you just need to explore yourself what you do and don't like. You'll probably orgasm sometime with a guy, just not now. No matter what just be sure you're being safe. (I know, sorry for sounding all lecturing and blah blah, but gotta be safe!)
2006-08-19 16:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tygirljojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of women do not climax during sex. They need other types of stimulation. Tell your boyfriend that you are not climaxing and see what he is willing to do about it. You might need him to perform oral sex on you to get you to come. You also might need some sort of sex toy or something extra to help you along. Whatever you do, stop faking it and tell him the truth. Your relationship will be better because of it.
2006-08-19 16:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys r dum. thank god im not one of the dum ones. uuurr dahh. .like... ya... and like.. blahhh..... see im not dum at all. so you have to teach him, tell him up front that hes not getting the job done, show him where to make you feel better. show him how to do it. if hes not mature enough to learn, then i garuntee u, you'll never be truly happy with him. every love needs good sex to survive. one of the best way to get a girl to orgasm is by licking an playing down there, its a fact. proven many times over. so teach him and make our men species a better race.
2006-08-19 16:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so now you are 17, k. Umm i would say don't tell him then when he leaves, get yourself to orgasm. Then if it keeps happening ask him if he could go down on you before sex so at least when he is done, you are.
2006-08-19 16:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of women fake it...it can be a hard question to broach with your b/f...it has to be done with a certain ammount of tact..( we all know what fragile egos men have) but if you can't talk to your man about it then may i suggest you try to reach orgasm by yourself or with the help of a vibrator..either way,good luck.
2006-08-19 16:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didnt have a orgasm with him, try to do yourself or with another toy
2006-08-19 16:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish the job yourself. And for future reference, don't fake it. Just be honest and tell him what he can do so you can orgasm.
2006-08-19 16:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never fake it!! It starts a bad habit and then you will never really orgasm. If you already can orgasm on your own then you need to teach your b.friend how to please you otherwise get to work on yourself and then show him how.
2006-08-19 16:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋