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2006-08-19 08:56:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I noticed that some do.
But these days you don't have to be raped or molested for that to happen just curious.
But the girls who were raped or molested do got issues with sex. Some don't want it all and some want it all the time.
2006-08-19 09:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by LaLa N 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Very often they do. Sadly, it will often give them problems this way, just as a child who is abused in other ways as well will sometimes become the abuser as an adult. Sometimes the guilt is so deep that subconciously, the abused will put themselves in a position to continue to be abused, such as having multiple partners. It's not that they did ANYTHING to cause the abuse, but yet, they will somehow feel that they didn't stop it, etc. The abuser will often have put things like this into the childs mind, tried to make them believe that they liked, or wanted it...and unfortunately, they learn to believe this lie, and are burdened with a lifetime of guilt over something that was forced upon them.
This is not to say that this is always the case. Just because a teen or adult is promiscuous does not mean that they were necessarily abused. There could be a lot of other reasons. Nor, does it mean that if they were abused that they will always be promiscuous.
I have a friend who was raped by her father until she was 13 years old, and she has never been promiscuous. In fact, it has really interfered with her ability to be intimate, even in marriage. She has managed to maintain an intimate relationship, but it's very difficult for her, and she really does not get pleasure from it.
If you were abused as a child, I would highly recommend that you talk to someone who is very experienced in counseling in this area, or get involved in a support group. To deal with the abuse and get tools to get through it will enable you to eventually have healthy, loving sexual relationships.
If you suspect that someone you are close to has been the victim of abuse, you may want to, very gently, approach the subject and see if you can encourage them to get help.
Amy
2006-08-19 13:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Amy N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be one end of the spectrum. Others might just completely shut everyone out and become cold and numb towards others. But either way it will greatly effect the type of person they become. I think they are sexually promiscuous because they just don't care anymore, or maybe they think if they are with enough people they will just forget about what happened when they are younger.
2006-08-19 09:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do as a result of it, they discover the attention they got after being raped and try to attract others to recieve that same kind of attention.
There are different reasons as to why some do become sexually promiscuous, although that's the only one i know of
2006-08-19 09:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Michael J with wings 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is a disgusting church. If that woman attended my church she'd accept not something yet organic sympathy, love, and probably be smothered to the point of getting to ask everybody to grant her area. As a christian i can not lie and say that the Christian church nevertheless has more effective comments of violence hostile to women. Is it biblical? No way, even with the undeniable fact that it really is there in no way the a lot less. there are countless Christians, including many pastors, who're attempting to knowledgeable church homes on what the bible extremely says about violence hostile to women and a thanks to help the victims and confront the assaulter. Our church keeps pamphlets contained in the girls's bathing room on abuse, which has an extremely thorough instructions for what to do contained with regards to being amidst abuse
2016-11-30 20:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by basinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother was raped by her father in front of my grandmother from the time she was 12. My grandfather was tied to the mafia, he was very well known to put contracts out on people's lives. He used this threat on my grandmother, that he would have them both killed. My mother had me @14 to get out !!! Does that answer your question. By the way the bastard died @ 50. My Grammy is 80 and lovin life. I'm 43 my mom is 58. By the way I have the best mom in the world!!!!!!!!
2006-08-19 09:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by wendy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that when virgins get raped, afterward they become an emotional wreck...
2006-08-19 09:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do. especially if they never got the necessary counselling to change from being a VICTIM to becoming a SURVIVOR!
2006-08-19 10:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do, and others just become afraid of the idea of sex.
2006-08-19 09:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so at least for the most part
2006-08-19 18:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by coolchicula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋